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The Sidepiece Agreement: 10 Rules for The Other Woman | Zondra Hughes

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cheating1A close male friend (who used to cheat on his wife) has enlightened me that some of us otherwise intelligent chicks enter into the Sidepiece Agreement — that is, knowingly becoming the mistress or other woman — without fully understanding the terms of the deal.

My friend should know; he had a lover that stalked his wife and told her everything after they broke up. His wife gave him another chance and my friend seems to be on the good foot these days.

However, my friend explained the dirty details of what men expect of their sidepieces, even if they don’t explain the rules as thoroughly as they should. Thus, without further ado, here are the top 10 rules that men expect their sidepieces to know.

1. You are the other woman. This does not mean that you are the only other woman. Act accordingly.

2. Please focus on the stolen moments that we spend together. Do not concern yourself with my whereabouts when we are apart. Frankly speaking, my life outside of our time together is not your concern.

3. Be comfortable with who you are to me; do not mention my wife and/or main woman, as she is not your concern. Do NOT compare yourself to my main chick in any way and do not attempt to contact her — to do so would be a breach of our agreement.

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  1. Leslie

    August 3, 2014 at 1:34 am

    I rather be lonely than accept a lowly position for left over penis

  2. MikiWheres

    August 3, 2014 at 2:10 am

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  3. redbone

    August 3, 2014 at 2:22 am

    Leftover penis my azz… These black-boys are the lowest of life forms, poison demented mentally-ill still on their mamas titty…. and a black woman who lowers her standards to be with such a fkn ghost demons as this is even worse.
    As far as the wife is concern, dumb bytch go get your clue less fake azz tested for STD’S, HIV the whole 9 yards then get some fkn therapy because your over the fkn edge for being married and join to a d@Mn fool like him in the first place and don’t even tell nobody that your azz didn’t know that you were even married to a low-life piece of shut like that….. Enough Said..!!!! Ugh / Smh!

  4. redbone

    August 3, 2014 at 2:30 am

    This article pi$$ed me off…. no disrespect to the editor because I know there are sisters out there who do lower their standards for low-down filthy dirty rattlesnake blackboys like that.

  5. Tiffany

    August 3, 2014 at 2:55 am

    This is horrible smdh

  6. Are you serious???

    August 3, 2014 at 5:28 am

    Are you serious? You have got to be kidding me! The writer could have found something more constructive to write about. I never respond to these blogs but I was compelled to comment on this one.

    As a human I was extremely disappointed in the article; As a woman I was appalled! Why not encourage men and women to be faithful. Write an article on the benefits of being faithful to one another like decreasing/diminishing the chances of STDs that continue to plauge this country, or the benefit of faithfulness reinforcing the foundation in family structure!

    A man or woman who can define the rules and regulations of a side piece is piss poor morally.

    To the writer, I will give you a topic for free…. Write an article on ways to decrease the rise in homicides that has widely spread through this country in the last decade. If we can put a man on the moon please tell me why we can not seem to decrease the number of illegal guns that are distributed daily country.

    No man/woman deserves to be cheated on. It is easy to cheat Lin someone when you don’t value the relationship. The one who loves the less has the most power. But if we were all to learn our value we would begin to accept less mess.

    The strength in morals and character is knowing when to walk away if things are not working out but in a respectful manner. It is possible to end a relationship without am ugly break-up.

    It is 5 am and I know true structure of this comment is all over but I’m tired. On the last note, if you are ready to walk away in a relationship the just leave but don’t cheat on them. Cheating speaks more about your character than anything else.

    I’m charging the writer to write more empowering articles that will encourage and motivate your readers. We have taken the time to read your article, at the very least you can give us quality material.



  7. carrieon

    August 3, 2014 at 12:57 pm

    This side piece shit is becoming to common and regular, some women think its cute and fun, but when your feelings get caught up, not so much fun anymore….we need to learn to be patient in seeking relationships and demand respect and conquer love for one mate, not two,three..thats such a pimp style way of living and a whorish way for womenfolk…stop the bullshit trend! Cause ladies, truthfully speaking you’re not satisfied!

  8. Cher

    August 3, 2014 at 1:16 pm

    It is not only black men that cheat. In fact with my personal exsoeriance I was in a common law relationship for 22 years with a Man who cheated on me who is Metis. I only found out the last few months we where together. After the first time I tried to forgive him; but. I was never able to get past what he did. During the time we had been trying to work out our relationship he had a young woman who did contact me to let me in on the details that I didn’t need to hear. it was completely the end for us. Then a few months later I received an anonymous news paper article I. The mail informing me that there had been a third woman 🙁 it’s been 3 years now and I am still alone 🙁 he was a man close to 60 years old 🙁 we had a son together who is not well. He left all the responsibility to me as he moved on with the third woman who he is still with. Cheating is very cruel and selfish. If a cheater is not happy being with the woman he is with then he should end the relationship. Rather than destroy their own family and the family of the person they are cheating with. I couldn’t live with him once I found out he was cheating . Love and sex is very sacred to me and I don’t share. Finally it’s not only men who cheat. There are plenty of women out there who like to mess around on their husbands and boyfriends. No respect for love 🙁 not only black men either. In fact I think cheating is far less prevalent with black men. It seems to me that the love is sweeter and deeper for their girlfriends and wives 🙂

    • Redbone

      August 3, 2014 at 3:42 pm


      I’m so sorry this type of madness has touched your life, and I know your son is hurting. Healing takes time. I know you have your son in therapy, keep him there. I had my youngest son in therapy for over 2 yrs, its a very painful situation for our sons. My youngest son was in high-school the first time I saw him physically cry-out in so much pain behind his father. That pain runs “DEEP”, so keep him in a position to pour out verbally so he won’t allow a “ROOT OF BITTERNESS” to consume his life causing him to become wreckless and stagnated in his life’s journey.
      Your X most likely has no conscience right now, but believe me “THE REDBONE” destruction is on his way… best believe me when I tell you those words, but you have to forgive him and move-on because he is not worth you not being able to move-on in prosperity in your life.
      I am by no means wishing anything bad or negative to come upon him, but its more about the “SEEDS HE HAS PLANTED”… *Have you ever seen a “VENUS FLY TRAP TURN ON IT-SELF”….WINK!!!

      LONG STORY SHORT: My childrens father / X-Hub literally looks worse then a skidd-rowe bumb, life has gone nowhere in almost 20 years, and the cheating women he is with is just as bad or even worse off then him… He dragged her life down the tube, but that’s what the stupid bytch wanted because all she saw was “GOLD DIAMONDS MONEY & THE BLING BLING LIFESTYLE”… Girlfriend her donkey-azz never got to live it because “REDBONE WAS THE ANOINTED BLESSING BEHIND THE MAN”…humm it wasn’t the other way around.


      Cher that man has “LOST” all of his favor with God…wink!! Believe me, but:(DO NOT STAND AROUND WAITING FOR HIM TO FALL), release yourself from him by prayer & meditation and asking God to (release) you and your son from: FREEDOM FROM INORDINATED AFFECTIONS AND SOULTIES

      This is your key to getting back to great mental health of the (mind body and spirit)…

      Spiritually clean your house by getting everything that has an attachment to him out of your “DOMAIN”. Most people don’t believe simple things can hold you “HOSTAGE”… they are (JUST THINGS), get rid of it all. Wash down every door-post in your home with pure amonia using the blood of Jesus as a weapon… wash all mirrors, windows and window seals, then anoint your home. Girlfriend you will feel the difference.

      Be strong and I lovU much….. Redbone /wink!!!

      • Jeana

        August 4, 2014 at 10:08 am

        This is such an inspiring message for every woman! I thank you so much. It has helped me too.

  9. Tiffany

    August 3, 2014 at 1:23 pm

    Exactly at “are you serious”.. Thanks for typing my thoughts.


    August 3, 2014 at 2:25 pm

    This same topic was a skit on his show a couple of days ago. C’mon now let’s get some originality,….ah’right!!!…

  11. Redbone

    August 3, 2014 at 3:00 pm


    Keep your stupid, ignorant, “NON-INTEGRITY / NO-GOOD LIFELESS-BACKBONE DONKEY-AZZ” out of this room. You already sound like one of those filthy azz fools. Unless your really a sissy-bytch…wink!!!


    August 3, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    @ redbone: I take it that you must be a side-piece yourself – YOU INSECURE TRASHY-FOUL-MOUTHED-AZZ B!TCH YOU….Thanx for the shout out though. You simple-minded fool!!! It’s been nice speaking with you. You have a nice day. Oh yeah I’ll stay out of your self-proclaimed room…B!TCH!!!!!!!!!…..

    • Redbone

      August 3, 2014 at 3:49 pm

      @TIMM DAWG aka: The Dog-Himself in the flesh…

      Stop talking about your mama that way foolish blackman or shall I say boy-child.


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  14. Devon

    August 3, 2014 at 6:34 pm

    Madame Noir ghetto and ratchet as sheit.

  15. wanda

    August 3, 2014 at 6:38 pm

    Unfortunately, there are women, black, white, Hispanic or other, who do think so little of themselves that they knowingly go into these sidepiece relationships without reservation. A lot of them have been devalued from the beginning and they know no other way to be. Not preaching, but until they see themselves as God sees them, they’ll keep on letting these “creeps” validate their existence.

  16. Leslie

    August 4, 2014 at 1:25 am

    Lol, I just saw this movie called “Scorned” where this girl’s fiance cheated on her with her best friend knowing she was in a mental hospital for 10 years. Anyhoo, they
    Had a weekend getaway, she knocked him out, lured her over, tied them both up, made him eat out the best friend at gun point, forced them to eat tacos with bad meat, put the friends dog in the microwave, electricuted them, put the friends knuckles in a vice grip and broke the mans ankles, drove off with his moneyand drove off with his money and blamed it all on an escaped convict. Got away with it too. I wouldn’t advise it to be done at home though

  17. Daisy

    August 4, 2014 at 2:14 pm

    In order to go along with some BS like this you would have to not have “low self esteem, but “no self esteem.” This is crazy. No man is that important where you have to degrade yourself like that.

  18. Elise Curry

    August 4, 2014 at 9:33 pm

    Did ANYONE read the CHRISTIAN Bible, Al Quran, and Torah, lately? It all the same, to me! Some individuals, STILL don’t get it! IT’S THEIR DAMN FAULT, £¥€$ costs, if you get my meaning? Learn & Leave; because, that’s how they SURVIVE! :-[ PURPOSE SERVED!

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