All Powerful
The Sidepiece Agreement: 10 Rules for The Other Woman | Zondra Hughes
A close male friend (who used to cheat on his wife) has enlightened me that some of us otherwise intelligent chicks enter into the Sidepiece Agreement — that is, knowingly becoming the mistress or other woman — without fully understanding the terms of the deal.
My friend should know; he had a lover that stalked his wife and told her everything after they broke up. His wife gave him another chance and my friend seems to be on the good foot these days.
However, my friend explained the dirty details of what men expect of their sidepieces, even if they don’t explain the rules as thoroughly as they should. Thus, without further ado, here are the top 10 rules that men expect their sidepieces to know.
1. You are the other woman. This does not mean that you are the only other woman. Act accordingly.
2. Please focus on the stolen moments that we spend together. Do not concern yourself with my whereabouts when we are apart. Frankly speaking, my life outside of our time together is not your concern.
3. Be comfortable with who you are to me; do not mention my wife and/or main woman, as she is not your concern. Do NOT compare yourself to my main chick in any way and do not attempt to contact her — to do so would be a breach of our agreement.
READ MORE via The Sidepiece Agreement: 10 Rules for The Other Woman | Zondra Hughes.
Leslie
August 3, 2014 at 1:34 am
I rather be lonely than accept a lowly position for left over penis
MikiWheres
August 3, 2014 at 2:10 am
Not only that…considering where else that “thing” might have been, why on earth would you want it inside you? Sometimes toys are better than boys!
redbone
August 3, 2014 at 2:22 am
Leftover penis my azz… These black-boys are the lowest of life forms, poison demented mentally-ill still on their mamas titty…. and a black woman who lowers her standards to be with such a fkn ghost demons as this is even worse.
As far as the wife is concern, dumb bytch go get your clue less fake azz tested for STD’S, HIV the whole 9 yards then get some fkn therapy because your over the fkn edge for being married and join to a d@Mn fool like him in the first place and don’t even tell nobody that your azz didn’t know that you were even married to a low-life piece of shut like that….. Enough Said..!!!! Ugh / Smh!
redbone
August 3, 2014 at 2:30 am
This article pi$$ed me off…. no disrespect to the editor because I know there are sisters out there who do lower their standards for low-down filthy dirty rattlesnake blackboys like that.
Tiffany
August 3, 2014 at 2:55 am
This is horrible smdh
Are you serious???
August 3, 2014 at 5:28 am
Are you serious? You have got to be kidding me! The writer could have found something more constructive to write about. I never respond to these blogs but I was compelled to comment on this one.
As a human I was extremely disappointed in the article; As a woman I was appalled! Why not encourage men and women to be faithful. Write an article on the benefits of being faithful to one another like decreasing/diminishing the chances of STDs that continue to plauge this country, or the benefit of faithfulness reinforcing the foundation in family structure!
A man or woman who can define the rules and regulations of a side piece is piss poor morally.
To the writer, I will give you a topic for free…. Write an article on ways to decrease the rise in homicides that has widely spread through this country in the last decade. If we can put a man on the moon please tell me why we can not seem to decrease the number of illegal guns that are distributed daily country.
No man/woman deserves to be cheated on. It is easy to cheat Lin someone when you don’t value the relationship. The one who loves the less has the most power. But if we were all to learn our value we would begin to accept less mess.
The strength in morals and character is knowing when to walk away if things are not working out but in a respectful manner. It is possible to end a relationship without am ugly break-up.
It is 5 am and I know true structure of this comment is all over but I’m tired. On the last note, if you are ready to walk away in a relationship the just leave but don’t cheat on them. Cheating speaks more about your character than anything else.
I’m charging the writer to write more empowering articles that will encourage and motivate your readers. We have taken the time to read your article, at the very least you can give us quality material.
Sincerely,
Disappointed
carrieon
August 3, 2014 at 12:57 pm
This side piece shit is becoming to common and regular, some women think its cute and fun, but when your feelings get caught up, not so much fun anymore….we need to learn to be patient in seeking relationships and demand respect and conquer love for one mate, not two,three..thats such a pimp style way of living and a whorish way for womenfolk…stop the bullshit trend! Cause ladies, truthfully speaking you’re not satisfied!
Cher
August 3, 2014 at 1:16 pm
It is not only black men that cheat. In fact with my personal exsoeriance I was in a common law relationship for 22 years with a Man who cheated on me who is Metis. I only found out the last few months we where together. After the first time I tried to forgive him; but. I was never able to get past what he did. During the time we had been trying to work out our relationship he had a young woman who did contact me to let me in on the details that I didn’t need to hear. it was completely the end for us. Then a few months later I received an anonymous news paper article I. The mail informing me that there had been a third woman 🙁 it’s been 3 years now and I am still alone 🙁 he was a man close to 60 years old 🙁 we had a son together who is not well. He left all the responsibility to me as he moved on with the third woman who he is still with. Cheating is very cruel and selfish. If a cheater is not happy being with the woman he is with then he should end the relationship. Rather than destroy their own family and the family of the person they are cheating with. I couldn’t live with him once I found out he was cheating . Love and sex is very sacred to me and I don’t share. Finally it’s not only men who cheat. There are plenty of women out there who like to mess around on their husbands and boyfriends. No respect for love 🙁 not only black men either. In fact I think cheating is far less prevalent with black men. It seems to me that the love is sweeter and deeper for their girlfriends and wives 🙂
Redbone
August 3, 2014 at 3:42 pm
@Cher…
I’m so sorry this type of madness has touched your life, and I know your son is hurting. Healing takes time. I know you have your son in therapy, keep him there. I had my youngest son in therapy for over 2 yrs, its a very painful situation for our sons. My youngest son was in high-school the first time I saw him physically cry-out in so much pain behind his father. That pain runs “DEEP”, so keep him in a position to pour out verbally so he won’t allow a “ROOT OF BITTERNESS” to consume his life causing him to become wreckless and stagnated in his life’s journey.
Your X most likely has no conscience right now, but believe me “THE REDBONE” destruction is on his way… best believe me when I tell you those words, but you have to forgive him and move-on because he is not worth you not being able to move-on in prosperity in your life.
I am by no means wishing anything bad or negative to come upon him, but its more about the “SEEDS HE HAS PLANTED”… *Have you ever seen a “VENUS FLY TRAP TURN ON IT-SELF”….WINK!!!
LONG STORY SHORT: My childrens father / X-Hub literally looks worse then a skidd-rowe bumb, life has gone nowhere in almost 20 years, and the cheating women he is with is just as bad or even worse off then him… He dragged her life down the tube, but that’s what the stupid bytch wanted because all she saw was “GOLD DIAMONDS MONEY & THE BLING BLING LIFESTYLE”… Girlfriend her donkey-azz never got to live it because “REDBONE WAS THE ANOINTED BLESSING BEHIND THE MAN”…humm it wasn’t the other way around.
The word of God says: A MAN WHO FINDETH A WIFE FINDETH A GOOD THING, SO HE HAS (FAVOR) WITH GOD…
Cher that man has “LOST” all of his favor with God…wink!! Believe me, but:(DO NOT STAND AROUND WAITING FOR HIM TO FALL), release yourself from him by prayer & meditation and asking God to (release) you and your son from: FREEDOM FROM INORDINATED AFFECTIONS AND SOULTIES
Spiritual Soulties is what keep you “BOUND, ENSLAVED IN YOUR MINDSET, BONDAGE, INPRISONED IN YOUR HEART AND SPIRIT-MAN”…
This is your key to getting back to great mental health of the (mind body and spirit)…
Spiritually clean your house by getting everything that has an attachment to him out of your “DOMAIN”. Most people don’t believe simple things can hold you “HOSTAGE”… they are (JUST THINGS), get rid of it all. Wash down every door-post in your home with pure amonia using the blood of Jesus as a weapon… wash all mirrors, windows and window seals, then anoint your home. Girlfriend you will feel the difference.
Be strong and I lovU much….. Redbone /wink!!!
Jeana
August 4, 2014 at 10:08 am
This is such an inspiring message for every woman! I thank you so much. It has helped me too.
Tiffany
August 3, 2014 at 1:23 pm
Exactly at “are you serious”.. Thanks for typing my thoughts.
TIMM DAWG
August 3, 2014 at 2:25 pm
WHAT THE HELL IS THIS THE RICKEY SMILEY MORNING SHOW???…..
This same topic was a skit on his show a couple of days ago. C’mon now let’s get some originality,….ah’right!!!…
Redbone
August 3, 2014 at 3:00 pm
@TIMM DAWG aka: THAT’S RIGHT (A-DOG)….
Keep your stupid, ignorant, “NON-INTEGRITY / NO-GOOD LIFELESS-BACKBONE DONKEY-AZZ” out of this room. You already sound like one of those filthy azz fools. Unless your really a sissy-bytch…wink!!!
TIMM DAWG
August 3, 2014 at 3:35 pm
@ redbone: I take it that you must be a side-piece yourself – YOU INSECURE TRASHY-FOUL-MOUTHED-AZZ B!TCH YOU….Thanx for the shout out though. You simple-minded fool!!! It’s been nice speaking with you. You have a nice day. Oh yeah I’ll stay out of your self-proclaimed room…B!TCH!!!!!!!!!…..
Redbone
August 3, 2014 at 3:49 pm
@TIMM DAWG aka: The Dog-Himself in the flesh…
Stop talking about your mama that way foolish blackman or shall I say boy-child.
TIMM DAWG
August 3, 2014 at 4:05 pm
@ redbone: THAT’S MR. BOY-CHILD TO YOU….YOU BITTER-BITCH!!!!!…
Devon
August 3, 2014 at 6:34 pm
Madame Noir ghetto and ratchet as sheit.
wanda
August 3, 2014 at 6:38 pm
Unfortunately, there are women, black, white, Hispanic or other, who do think so little of themselves that they knowingly go into these sidepiece relationships without reservation. A lot of them have been devalued from the beginning and they know no other way to be. Not preaching, but until they see themselves as God sees them, they’ll keep on letting these “creeps” validate their existence.
Leslie
August 4, 2014 at 1:25 am
Lol, I just saw this movie called “Scorned” where this girl’s fiance cheated on her with her best friend knowing she was in a mental hospital for 10 years. Anyhoo, they
Had a weekend getaway, she knocked him out, lured her over, tied them both up, made him eat out the best friend at gun point, forced them to eat tacos with bad meat, put the friends dog in the microwave, electricuted them, put the friends knuckles in a vice grip and broke the mans ankles, drove off with his moneyand drove off with his money and blamed it all on an escaped convict. Got away with it too. I wouldn’t advise it to be done at home though
Daisy
August 4, 2014 at 2:14 pm
In order to go along with some BS like this you would have to not have “low self esteem, but “no self esteem.” This is crazy. No man is that important where you have to degrade yourself like that.
Elise Curry
August 4, 2014 at 9:33 pm
Did ANYONE read the CHRISTIAN Bible, Al Quran, and Torah, lately? It all the same, to me! Some individuals, STILL don’t get it! IT’S THEIR DAMN FAULT, £¥€$ costs, if you get my meaning? Learn & Leave; because, that’s how they SURVIVE! :-[ PURPOSE SERVED!
Substance Abuse Programs
March 26, 2020 at 4:43 am
Methadone Maintenance Therapy http://aaa-rehab.com Alcohol Rehab Centers http://aaa-rehab.com In House Rehab
http://aaa-rehab.com
chloroquine for sale
April 9, 2020 at 6:44 am
chloroquine for sale
[url=https://webbfenix.com/#]chloroquine tablets for sale[/url] https://webbfenix.com/
Pingback: vagragenericaar.org
generic ventolin inhalers for sale
April 21, 2020 at 6:01 pm
necessarily give [url=https://amstyles.com/#]generic ventolin inhalers for sale[/url] mainly disease altogether table generic ventolin tight recording generic ventolin inhalers for sale again copy https://amstyles.com/
viagara for sales
April 23, 2020 at 1:29 am
carefully pin [url=http://viacheapusa.com/#]viagara for sales[/url] however effect gently tackle viagra for
sale again imagination viagara for sales abroad dig http://viacheapusa.com/
Pingback: sildenafil
Pingback: male erection pills
Pingback: cheap erectile dysfunction pill
Pingback: cheap erectile dysfunction pills online
Pingback: cialis 10 mg
Pingback: online casino real money paypal
Pingback: doubleu casino online casino
Pingback: buy cheap viagra
Pingback: hollywood casino online real money
Pingback: online slots real money
Pingback: cialis 5 mg
Pingback: loan online
Pingback: cash advance online
Pingback: cash loan
Pingback: viagra prescription
Pingback: online casinos real money
Pingback: win real money online casino for free
Pingback: norberto
Pingback: generic for cialis
Pingback: cialis buy
Pingback: cialis 5 mg
Pingback: internet casino bonus
Pingback: best online casino
Pingback: buy hydroxychloroquine online
Pingback: online casinos
Pingback: real casino online
Pingback: free slots
Pingback: generic viagra canada
Pingback: non prescription viagra
Pingback: viagra online usa
Pingback: viagra prices
Pingback: viagra cost
Pingback: generic for viagra
Pingback: purchase cialis
Pingback: buy viagra pills
Pingback: viagra for men
Pingback: generic cialis at walmart
Pingback: viagra
Pingback: cialis 5 mg
Pingback: generic tadalafil
Pingback: casino games
Pingback: generic viagra usa to usa
Pingback: casino world
Pingback: http://viagrabs.com
Pingback: how to buy viagra online price
Pingback: buy viagra with dapoxetine online
Pingback: buy cialis online without prescription
Pingback: buy viagra online cana
Pingback: droga5.net
Pingback: tadalafil pills
Pingback: cheap Viagra 100 mg
Pingback: Viagra 25mg united states
Pingback: Viagra 130mg without prescription
Pingback: viagra generic
Pingback: cheap cialis
Pingback: how to purchase Cialis 10mg
Pingback: buying viagra online
Pingback: rx trust pharm
Pingback: Cialis 60 mg price
Pingback: cost of Cialis 10mg
Pingback: Cialis 20 mg united kingdom
Pingback: rxtrustpharm
Pingback: viagra price
Pingback: rxtrust pharm
Pingback: order strattera 18mg
Pingback: herbal viagra
Pingback: arimidex 1mg without prescription
Pingback: cialis 20mg effects
Pingback: ashwagandha 60caps without a doctor prescription
Pingback: buy avapro 150mg
Pingback: buy viagra online with paypal
Pingback: brand cialis 100mg
Pingback: generic cialis at walmart
Pingback: viagra erection
Pingback: calcium carbonate 500 mg for sale
Pingback: viagra on sale in usa
Pingback: cheap casodex 50 mg
Pingback: catapres without a prescription
Pingback: order ceclor 250 mg
Pingback: ceftin nz
Pingback: celexa united states
Pingback: cephalexin price
Pingback: cipro 250 mg nz
Pingback: claritin tablets
Pingback: online casinos for usa players
Pingback: online casinos
Pingback: gambling games
Pingback: casino
Pingback: wind creek casino online games
Pingback: doubleu casino online casino
Pingback: casino games online
Pingback: best casino online
Pingback: play casino online
Pingback: hard rock casino online
Pingback: affordable insurance
Pingback: preferred car insurance
Pingback: insurance auto
Pingback: automobile insurance quotes
Pingback: ameriprise car insurance quotes costco
Pingback: autoowners insurance
Pingback: list of car insurance quotes companies
Pingback: car insurance quotes comparison online
Pingback: car insurance quotes
Pingback: personal loans for poor credit
Pingback: payday loans with bad credit
Pingback: payday loans nj
Pingback: online installment loans
Pingback: unsecured quick loans
Pingback: fast acting viagra alternative
Pingback: Rx generic viagra
Pingback: viagra don't work anymore what next
Pingback: order viagra professional
Pingback: cbd oil for sale in colorado springs
Pingback: how to make cbd oil
Pingback: cbd oil benefits and side effects
Pingback: cbd pure hemp oil
Pingback: viagra soft
Pingback: mymathlab answers to homework
Pingback: what is the best custom essay writing service
Pingback: essay paper writing services
Pingback: should schools have homework
Pingback: australia essay writing service
Pingback: essaywritingservices.us.com
Pingback: can money buy you happiness essay
Pingback: aa seat assignment
Pingback: buying essays
Pingback: cleocin without prescription
Pingback: Canadian viagra 50mg
Pingback: clomid 50mg nz
Pingback: clonidine 0,1 mg pharmacy
Pingback: Viagra 50 mg
Pingback: colchicine usa
Pingback: cialis wiki
Pingback: symbicort inhaler generic
Pingback: combivent price
Pingback: coreg 6,25mg canada
Pingback: compazine 5 mg usa
Pingback: cozaar 100 mg purchase
Pingback: crestor 10 mg purchase
Pingback: Canadain viagra
Pingback: cost of cymbalta 30 mg
Pingback: ddavp tablets
Pingback: depakote 250mg prices
Pingback: diamox 250 mg pills
Pingback: cheapest differin 15g
Pingback: diltiazem cheap
Pingback: doxycycline 100mg nz
Pingback: buy dramamine 50mg
Pingback: cheapest elavil 10mg
Pingback: erythromycin for sale
Pingback: etodolac cheap
Pingback: where can i buy flomax
Pingback: flonase nasal spray 50 mcg without prescription
Pingback: cat essay writer
Pingback: garcinia cambogia caps nz
Pingback: order geodon
Pingback: hyzaar over the counter
Pingback: imdur 60 mg nz
Pingback: pharmacy
Pingback: cialis pill
Pingback: imitrex 25mg united kingdom
Pingback: imodium united states
Pingback: her latest blog
Pingback: how to purchase imuran 25 mg
Pingback: indocin 75mg purchase
Pingback: cheapest lamisil 250 mg
Pingback: levaquin 250 mg price
Pingback: lopressor for sale
Pingback: luvox 100 mg pharmacy
Pingback: macrobid 50 mg pharmacy
Pingback: viagra shelf life
Pingback: meclizine 25 mg online pharmacy
Pingback: viagra price at cvs
Pingback: nortriptyline tablets
Pingback: periactin australia
Pingback: viagra
Pingback: phenergan online pharmacy
Pingback: plaquenil cost
Pingback: prednisolone pills
Pingback: prevacid 15mg for sale
Pingback: prilosec 20 mg pills
Pingback: proair inhaler 100mcg without prescription
Pingback: procardia nz
Pingback: proscar tablet
Pingback: protonix pills
Pingback: provigil 100mg cheap
Pingback: pulmicort 200 mcg no prescription
Pingback: cheapest pyridium
Pingback: cost of reglan 10 mg
Pingback: cheap remeron
Pingback: cost of retin-a cream
Pingback: revatio 20 mg without a doctor prescription
Pingback: how to buy risperdal 3 mg
Pingback: robaxin usa
Pingback: rogaine 5% without a doctor prescription
Pingback: seroquel price
Pingback: singulair tablets
Pingback: skelaxin 400mg online pharmacy
Pingback: spiriva nz
Pingback: tenormin 100mg uk
Pingback: thorazine 50 mg tablet
Pingback: toprol 25mg canada
Pingback: tricor 200 mg without a prescription
Pingback: order valtrex 1000mg
Pingback: verapamil 40 mg no prescription
Pingback: voltaren tablets
Pingback: wellbutrin prices
Pingback: cialis strength
Pingback: zanaflex 2mg united states
Pingback: zestril medication
Pingback: click here for more
Pingback: zocor 10 mg medication
Pingback: zovirax without prescription
Pingback: zyloprim cost
Pingback: zyprexa 2,5mg united states
Pingback: buy zyvox 600mg
Pingback: order sildenafil
Pingback: tadalafil 20 mg australia
Pingback: furosemide price
Pingback: how to buy escitalopram 20mg
Pingback: aripiprazole otc
Pingback: pioglitazone 30 mg prices
Pingback: spironolactone 100mg over the counter
Pingback: fexofenadine 120 mg online
Pingback: glimepiride tablets
Pingback: meclizine 25 mg united states
Pingback: how to purchase leflunomide
Pingback: atomoxetine 25 mg without a doctor prescription
Pingback: donepezil without a doctor prescription
Pingback: anastrozole 1 mg for sale
Pingback: irbesartan australia
Pingback: dutasteride usa
Pingback: order olmesartan
Pingback: buspirone 10 mg cheap
Pingback: clonidine 0.1 mg tablets
Pingback: where to buy cefuroxime 500 mg
Pingback: celecoxib price
Pingback: cialis free trial
Pingback: cost of citalopram
Pingback: cephalexin prices
Pingback: ciprofloxacin tablet
Pingback: loratadine 10 mg no prescription
Pingback: clindamycin 300 mg nz
Pingback: canada generic viagra price
Pingback: order clozapine 25mg
Pingback: prochlorperazine 5mg online
Pingback: carvedilol 25mg cheap
Pingback: warfarin 2mg without a doctor prescription
Pingback: rosuvastatin 5mg online
Pingback: cheap desmopressin
Pingback: cheap divalproex
Pingback: how to purchase tolterodine
Pingback: acetazolamide cheap
Pingback: fluconazole purchase