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Anna Belle – Ladies: 3 Things to Consider Before Attempting to ‘Trap’ a Man With a Baby

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Is it okay to Baby Trap your boyfriend and bring a child into this world just to satisfy a goal? Apparently some women think this is the thing to do these days. Am I just old fashioned in believing things should happen naturally?

A woman was actually planning – yes, planning in detail – to fall pregnant to her boyfriend by the end of the year without him knowing.  Her reasons? Because she was 28, and her goal for the last 10 years was to have a baby by the age of 30.

They had been together for a year or two and had not really discussed having children.  Is it okay to do that?   Here are some questions you might want to ask yourself before you go ahead and Baby Trap your boyfriend:

1.  Why Do You Want a Baby? If you are planning to have a baby to save your relationship, think it will be fun, or to satisfy a whim, then think again very carefully.  A baby is not a toy or animal that you can give away when you’ve had enough.  It is a little person who deserves to be loved, cherished, educated, and happy.  Babies cost money. Babies cry.  Babies need attention (sometimes all night).  Babies get sick.  And sometimes, there is no one around to help you.

Sure, they are cute and will love you unconditionally in the early years, but they need loving parents. Parents who have talked discussed and decided upon creating a life together, parents who have shared and respected each other’s thoughts and opinions about parenthood.  Accidents happen (my best friend had a beautiful accident), but they should never be ‘planned’ accidents.

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