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Why Your Man May Secretly Resent You | Healthy Black Woman

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By: Krystle Crossman

There are common things that women do that end up making their men very resentful of them. Avoid resentment by being mindful of the following situations sent in by men who resent the actions of their spouse:

1. Don’t make plans without him and just assume that he will be okay with it. Ask first if you want to go do something. You don’t need permission but at least check with him and make sure that he hasn’t planned something for the two of you. Make sure that he is okay with staying home and taking care of the kids if you have any.

2. When you are out to dinner with your friends it is a good idea not to complain about your husband, especially while he is right there. Even if you jokingly speak about how he doesn’t do the dishes or do the laundry it can still put him in a bad mood and make him resent you.

3. The past is in the past. Leave it that way. With every fight that you may have, focus on what is happening in that moment. Don’t bring up past issues that have already been resolved.

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  1. susan

    July 2, 2014 at 2:35 pm

    Excuse me but it works both ways. What century is this writer living in anyway? The writer acts like it’s only women who need to observe these “suggestions”. I would resent a man who behaved this way as well. And if he is “secretly” resenting a woman for behaving this way then it’s his own fault for not letting her know. This Lind of man needs to grow up and stop being a big baby.

  2. The Who's Who

    July 2, 2014 at 3:34 pm

    ..and the females who do as the article states duly noted .. need to GROW UP as well and be A REAL WOMAN.. becuz REAL WOMEN don’t disrespect their man only..the ratchet hood rats females with motor mouths’ do as the articles states….

  3. Gloria Hawkins

    July 2, 2014 at 4:06 pm

    This wouldn’t work for a lot of women but for us that have been Born Again and try to live our lives the way the Bible instructs us to this was informative. Thanks.

  4. waymon lefall

    July 2, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    Who, you hit the nail on the head. Can’t say to much because I want everybody to buy my new book ( jocko a long way from home Down Under )

  5. Sarah

    July 2, 2014 at 7:11 pm

    Who is Who, I have a motor mouth and I love it because some men like to take advantage of us so I use my motor mouth to put them in check. Trust me, it works

  6. darnell

    July 2, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Unfortunately, this article illuminates the fact that black women are in transition. Black women are just a generation away from being a major power broker in the home. Now black women have emerged on the national stage as major players in the work place, social events and the home front as well. Susan, for example, is quick to assert that this mode of thinking is outdated because women of today have a new attitude. She is not wrong, just represents a segment of the female community that is more apt to approach a relationship of the aspect of what she is not going to do, not putting up with and seek a verbal contract up front. Many women have had to fight with men, fight against men and demonstrate there will be a fight for equality in the relationship. Let’s face it, black women have a reputation for being abrasive, loud and confrontative. Men have their problems too. We must be mindful that many of our young men and women are learning vital behaviors in the household. If mom is disrespecting dad, son and daughter are receiving this information. If dad is a drunk and abusive to mom, son and daughter are watching this. Bobi Christina calling Angela Bassett a man, Hip Hop Altlanta, mother of young daughter puts out a sex tape for profit, duped by her slick boyfriend. Many issues are being lost in the transition for black women. Many women are getting caught up in the fog of life and forgetting that young people are watching and following in your footsteps. It is obvious to all the Michelle Obama is no pushover, yet carries herself with dignity and style.

    • Valarie Blanchard

      July 4, 2014 at 7:34 pm

      You go Darnell, well put brotha well put….and I’m out, peace

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