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Ladies: 3 Reasons Why He Needs to Help You With House Chores

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These days, the modern man does not come home and expect to be handed a drink, be led to the couch where he can put his feet up, watch the news and have dinner served to him when he’s ready.

Well, okay, my man gets that royal treatment quite a bit, but he is most deserving of it.  He works hard all day, commutes an hour each way to and from work and needs to fit in exercise as his job requires him to be fit and ready for action.

But he still finds time to help cook dinner (especially on weekends), iron our clothes and help out with the housework.  He is ironing as I write this article and whistling away to himself.  You see, every relationship requires, understanding, commitment and communication.

When he first came into the relationship, I made it quite clear that although I am full of love, romance and everything he desires in a relationship, I am not his mother, slave or carer.  I am his partner and he should respect our relationship enough to understand that.  We set our expectations, concerns and what we wanted (and needed) from each other and bazinga! It worked!  Our relationship includes him helping with the housework and yours should too.

If you still need convincing, here are 3 good reasons why he should help with the housework.

1. Equal Partnership – In today’s relationships, both couples usually work.  So it would be unfair for one person to work all day, then be expected to come home and do housework on top of it.  Likewise, if one of you has decided to be the breadwinner in your relationship while the other works, it means that in essence, you both have full time jobs and you need to share the work load together.

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  1. Redbone

    July 24, 2014 at 4:04 pm

    Off THE CHAIN…

    This is a great article, “STAND YOUR GROUND”… Any strong respectable blackman with integrity will agree with you 1000% plus some more. Blessed marriages and relationships are about “TRUE LOVE & HARMONY”.
    True love is unconditional, its also mature, it does not break-down or destroy its mate. Real love really does cover a multitude of things. I don’t know how much more simply anybody can put it… it is what it is..
    If unconditional love is not there, then there is no relationship, it takes experiencing it to actually be able to genuinly talk about it.
    For all you none-believers “TRUE LOVE” starts from up-above, not from your dang flesh. I would never allow myself to be join to a relationship that is “ONE-SIDED”, because it will “NEVER WORK” no matter how much you put into it. If your man turely loves you he will be “ELATED TO MEET YOU 1/2 WAY IN (ALL) THINGs”, even his part of showering you with gifts just because, looking for nothing in return but kisses hugs love and respect from his women. I don’t believe we need to break down the rest, it just comes natural with real love…


  2. Pernell Parham

    July 24, 2014 at 8:50 pm

    This was what I knew all along. For one, it’s just common courtesy, and two, all that ‘women’s chores’ crap is outdated and stupid. Most men grew up seeing their mother struggling, so they should understand how hard it is and be willing and eager to help maintain the household. Three, It takes the both of them working together as a team while to earn real trust that they have each other’s backs while forming a deeper bond, instead of letting resentment build, come between them and ruin the relationship.

  3. redbone

    July 24, 2014 at 9:20 pm

    True love and respect is what gets the job done, without it the situation in article will not work. Believe it or not there are still men out there who don’t agree, but thank God for the ones that do.

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