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Pastor Deitrick Haddon’s Ex-Wife says he got his mistress pregnant

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Pastor Deitrick Haddon is one of the most famous pastors in the world, but he’s been criticized for putting his secular existence ahead of his spiritual one.  A recent article from Madamenoire.com highlights some of the personal issues that this pastor is dealing with, and it’s making people wonder if he’s the kind of man of God that he wants everyone to think he is.

It appears that the pastor’s ex-wife Damita is speaking about his current wife, Domonique.   Damita says that the pastor, despite public assertions to the contrary, actually got his current wife pregnant while he was married to his previous wife.  She hadn’t spoken about the divorce publicly until recently, but is now spilling the beans on her ex-husband.

Even worse, Damita says that the “good pastor” left her right after her mother died, which is a nasty contrast to his image as a man of God.

“Nobody’s stupid,” Damita told Path MEGAzine. “Especially people who have been married before or been in relationships. The process of divorce takes time. If I was going through anything in our marriage and nothing was wrong in our marriage—I’m just putting that out there—we were bickering, there was no infidelity. We were happily and successfully pastoring in Detroit.”

The former pastor’s wife then went even harder against her ex-husband’s reputation, stating that she was going through a difficult period after the death of her mother.  She says that, despite the fact that she was under the impression that the bickering between the two would be put to the side in a time of crisis, this is when the pastor decided to bolt from their family.

Even worse, she says that the pastor left around the same time as the BET Celebration of Gospel, making it appear that her husband was struck with the fame and glory of being in the public spotlight and less intrigued by doing the hard work of supporting his wife in her time of need.  To top it all off, the mistress that she says he was seeing on the side “just happened” to turn up pregnant.

“He left in the Month of June, around the BET Celebration of Gospel, I believe,” she added. “He left two days after I buried my mom. Until that day, what ever issues or arguments or beef that we had like marriages do, had been squashed after my mom died. I wasn’t under the impression that he was going anywhere but two days after I buried my mom he left. Next thing I know there’s somebody pregnant. That just doesn’t add up, you don’t sleep with a random person and get her pregnant.”

What do you think?  Are many of these famous “men of God” really representing the spirit of God or only worshipping the gods of fame and fortune?  Should his ex-wife have remained quiet or does she deserve the right to share her side of the story?

76 Comments

  1. Phillip Battle

    July 15, 2014 at 4:47 pm

    Personally a man of God isn’t God. To commit an act of infidelity proves that man is just mere flesh and bones,and many are weak for the flesh. Until we as people learn how to worship God instead of man we’ll continue to be dumbfounded by the acts of man.

    • Witness for Jesus

      July 15, 2014 at 5:16 pm

      Very well said Phillip!

    • willie miles

      July 15, 2014 at 10:54 pm

      God and man are one.

    • joshua ifeagba

      July 16, 2014 at 8:21 am

      just as a true worshiper of God and not of man

    • Destinee Caesar-Davis

      July 16, 2014 at 3:50 pm

      Amen!

    • karen

      July 17, 2014 at 9:47 pm

      Yes he’s flesh and blood. But he also has the spirit of God that he should obey.

  2. Luke

    July 15, 2014 at 4:47 pm

    Stop referring to these people as “A Man of God.” Men of God don’t behave in that manner; however, men of the lower power (devil) do. Answer this simple question for yourself: If the slave-master wasn’t christian, what would you be?

    • Witness for Jesus

      July 15, 2014 at 5:18 pm

      A CHILD OF GOD , A BORN AGAIN BELIEVER THAT IS WHO I WOULD BE. GLOOOOOOOOORY!!!!!!!!! 🙂

      • Regina

        July 16, 2014 at 3:12 pm

        Then you wouldn’t be SCHYTT.

  3. Donnie

    July 15, 2014 at 4:53 pm

    Luke, don’t hurt em, slow down, u moving too fast, most don’t understand or even wanna hear that fact!

    • Witness for Jesus

      July 15, 2014 at 5:25 pm

      Ronnie we believers in the Lord and soon coming King Jesus WORSHIP HIM in in child like Faith in spirit and in truth. The natural man can’t comprehend the things or spiritual truth of the WORD OF GOD because it’s spiritually discerned.

      • Regina

        July 16, 2014 at 4:08 pm

        Before slavery, African were Animists and true and real Christians that did not evolve into that xtian schytt of today.

        Read the book “The Africans Who Wrote The Bible” by Nana Banchie Darkwah and then read the book, “The Council of Nicea” and see how “YOUR” religion xtianity got perverted.

        BTW, study the Essene Gospels. After all Jesus, if he ever existed, was an Essene.

        The read “Blacked Out by Whitewash” by Suzar.

        The come to me with that current white man’s xtian crap.

  4. Colleen

    July 15, 2014 at 5:51 pm

    He made an individual choice. I know a few Pastors that ate true to their duties as follower of Christ, blameless in their walk, faithful to their wives & practice what they preach. Besides he told all this last year. She’s so late with her side of the story. Nobody cares anymore.

    • karen

      July 16, 2014 at 10:52 am

      Totally agree with your comment Colleen.

  5. LADY DI

    July 15, 2014 at 5:55 pm

    I PERSONALLY THINK WIFEY #1 IS HATING ON WIFEY “#2”! AND PERHAPS ALOT OF JEALOUSY HAS ALOT TO DO WITH AND ALOT OF AMNESIA … BECAUSE CONTRARY TO HER LIES … MINISTER DEITRICK HADDON HAD CAME FORTH WITH THE TRUTH. MS. EX-WIFE DAMITA WAS HAVING A VERY “HOT & HEAVY” AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER PREACHER IN THE SAME CIRCLE AS HER “EX-HUSBAND” & HE FOUND OUT ABOUT IT!

    AND THAT IS “WHY” HE LEFT HIS POSITION @ THEIR CHURCH … AS WELL AS STOPPED PREACHING! SO MS. DAMITA WHAT HAPPEN YOUR “SPARE THING” DIDN’T WORK OUT FOR YOU? IT TURNED OUT THAT YOU HAD BELITTLED YOUR SELF FROM BEING A FEATURED “FIRST LADY DOWN TO JUST ANOTHER BOOTY CALL”!

    LIKE THEY SAY IF YOU ARE GOING TO TELL IT, HELL TELL ALL :-))!

    REAL TALK

    • Wizzy

      July 15, 2014 at 7:07 pm

      ANY man or woman who leaves a marriage to start a relationship while still IN the marriage will reap just what they have sown. WORD to wife #2: Honey, if he’ll do it WITH you, he’ll do it TO you!!! The 2nd marriage will not last. You can NOT build your happiness from another person’s pain.

    • Ree

      July 19, 2014 at 7:28 pm

      Well he didn’t just leave or step down his father made him step down…

  6. Aishe

    July 15, 2014 at 6:29 pm

    Anastasia I have one word for you..COWARD…How bout you say that to an African-American on your job? Tell me how that works out for you…Ppl who hide behind white sheets and social media postings are COWARDS.

  7. khe

    July 15, 2014 at 6:38 pm

    Thank you Phillip Battle alot of people put these pastors on pedalstools and want to criticize them when they fall

  8. khe

    July 15, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    Go to the hood and say all the shit you say online guarantee you wont live to make another post online you probably got a black man in your bed every night ….you really must be intimidated by black people that’s why you hide behind your internet persona deep down you want to be blavk huh tell the truth FOR ONCE

  9. khe

    July 15, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    *black

  10. khe

    July 15, 2014 at 6:46 pm

    She dont hate others she don’t even hate blacks she hates her self probably cringes everytime she has to look in the mirror God sees every post and she will be judged accordingly

  11. ericaf

    July 15, 2014 at 6:47 pm

    Nobody cares that your husband cheated and had a baby, you are not the first and won’t be the last. Preacher or not. Men are fallible. No reason to be airing your dirty laundry in public because he’s on TV , you’re going to come off as the bitter ex wife. Move on to bigger and better things. Take it from someone who’s been there. Peace

  12. Israeline Yah

    July 15, 2014 at 7:08 pm

    Anger rest in the bosom of fools. Get BETTER not bitter.
    Move on. Remember Eden when God Almighty had to move on and
    create His Son for the Resurrection? Well, we are now set for the
    RISE! Therefore, choose LIFE.

  13. Diva

    July 15, 2014 at 7:13 pm

    @Anastasia:
    YOU are the ignorant and immoral one for saying such things about Blacks. If you don’t have anything worthwhile to contribute, you should just shut your nasty mouth.

  14. Anike

    July 15, 2014 at 8:35 pm

    What I think is that a WHOLE LOT OF Black CHRISTIAN WOMEN (AND men) fornicate and have babies out of wedlock.

    They still preach all day long (and get on everyone’s nerves by doing so) at work and talk about nothing but their church, the bible, their minister.
    Many of them dwell in a social, cultural and educational wasteland.

    So, if her words are true he just acted the same as a whole lot of other Black Christians.
    He took his que from his congregants.

    • Regina

      July 16, 2014 at 4:10 pm

      This goes on in the white churches as well. Whites don’t advertise it. White preachers steal life savings of their members and so do black preachers.

  15. Margo44092

    July 15, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    Funny how before Gospel Celebration and the Preachers show, there were rumours of her infidelity and his brokenness. He proclaimed on the Preacher show (I only seen one episode) the his recent wife helped him through a hard time. I believe it is some serious shade going on with Damita, and hope that there is healing coming also. I jope that they can also heal there relationship to become friends.

  16. Sean

    July 15, 2014 at 8:53 pm

    Phillip Battle hit the nail on the head.

  17. Charlyse

    July 15, 2014 at 8:55 pm

    He without, sin, throw the first stone

  18. Gloria Hawkins

    July 15, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    I. Feel so sorry for Anastasia. I am a Born Again Evangelist and Pastor who would love to see you delivered from hate, ignorance, prejudice, and low self-esteem. I along with others on here are praying for you. Be careful who you talk like that around because many won’t be as kind and forgiving as some of us have been toward s you sweetie. 🙂

  19. Gloria Hawkins

    July 15, 2014 at 9:56 pm

    Wizzy you are on point. Whatever we sow we will reap. What is so funny God will remind you of it when it comes back
    to hunt you. With all these single people
    out here why break up a marriage?

  20. Devon

    July 15, 2014 at 10:45 pm

    Anastasia is white trash but she didnt lie our hiv aids rate is off the fukkin chain plus we got the highest oow birthrate in the country 72%. Asian oow birthrate is like 12% and I bet yall those asian oow chicks got disowned by their families. And those Indians and Arabs dont accept oow either. Our oow % is embarrassin and so is our high hiv aids rate. Simple solution stop fukkin raw. If trojan depended on blkmn to make a profit they would go out of business. And if blkwmns pucci was a commodity on the stock exchange the value would drop to 10 cent per share becuz blkwmn give it way to random dudes and that makes it cheap. Tellin it like it TIS. Be mad if yall want but yall know Im right. Only 28% of babies born to married blkppl….a husband and wife what say about morals and values our ppl? Why yall wmn keep havin babies when yall knee deep in poverty when yall know havin random babies from random dudes that yall let fukk and they dont love and respect yall gonna put yall azzhole deep in poverty is that smart or stupid? Just askin.

    • Regina

      July 16, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      Jesus was born out of wedlock? Why won’t the black church or white churches for that matter address that issue?

      Betrothed means engaged, not married. Now if you want to go to old testament regarding the term b-a-$-t-a-r-d and what is said in Deuteronomy 23:2, then jesus does not qualify and xtians are not know from counting either.

      A ba$t@rd shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD.

      BTW, people who are constantly having babies is because G’d said, be fruitful and multiply. So in essence they are obeying G’d’s word.

  21. Arneader

    July 15, 2014 at 11:00 pm

    What took her so long? Is it because of zzz PREACHERS OF LA where he showcased the courtship , house, marriage and pregnancy? I wouldn’t wasted anytime calling him out . At least by now everything would be out and we would be onto another story.

    • Regina

      July 16, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      Maybe the other shoe is about to drop.

  22. Tasha H.

    July 15, 2014 at 11:44 pm

    He is a devil in the flesh. Money is the root of all evil. He needs to ‘re evaluate is life and he needs to repent for his sins. His new wife needs to be a shame of her self as well.

  23. Wil May

    July 16, 2014 at 12:09 am

    Anastasia, you are one ugly female and highly insecure. In addition, your are irrelevant and the only time your false sense of superiority surface, is when you are on social media. In reality, you suffer from an inferiority complex. Not only does you comments reflect on your hypocrisy but your life is full of misery. You can’t even get along with the people you identify with. Why, because you have been rejected? The only hope for you, maybe,is psychotherapy, you first class racist.

  24. Butch

    July 16, 2014 at 1:19 am

    GOD & Man are NOT one! I don’t even think u know what u were typing! Do not put ur trust in nobles.
    I’m sure this woman found out the hard way.

  25. MsNina25

    July 16, 2014 at 2:15 am

    Wow! To the ignoramous who made comments about Blacks being animals who have unprotected sex and our HIV rates are the highest and how we’re all filthy, etc., lady you need to re-educate yourself….oh forget the RE, how about just educate yourself!! There is a crisis outbreak epidemic going on RIGHT NOW in russia and ukraine of the aids virus and hiv. The MEDIA only reports it coming out of Africa. And for those of you out there like me who are truth seekers, I highly suggest you get a documentary asap entitled ‘hidden colors’. Part 1 came out in 2011 and part 2 around 2013. Life changing! And its all based on facts! You can watch it too Anastasia! But I have a feeling the truth just may kill you! Please get this documentary my ppl. Thank me later!!! -many blessings

    • Regina

      July 16, 2014 at 4:19 pm

      Have you seen ‘Maafa21. Black Genocide in 21 Century in America?” I highly recommend it.

      • Regina M

        July 17, 2014 at 9:54 am

        Hi Regina, first of all, I want to say thank you for your highly intelligent and factual comments. It’s really inspiring to see and read concise answers to ignorance-out-of-control. I also spread the word about that enlightening documentary Maafa21. I believe every person of color should watch that eye-opening, truthtelling, precious piece of oral history.

  26. corrine perkins

    July 16, 2014 at 6:59 am

    Personally, I believe people should stop responding to that hateful individual that goes by the name of Anastasia. Each time we respond it gives her strength and power so starve her by not responding to her hate. Blessings

  27. Kiesha makins

    July 16, 2014 at 9:12 am

    Well we All are Sinners!!!!

    • Regina

      July 16, 2014 at 4:49 pm

      Who said this?

  28. DAYNETTE

    July 16, 2014 at 11:14 am

    I’m glad she is telling her side of the story for whatever reason..regardless who did what,in a marriage you’re not suppose to turn around & hurt your spouce because they hurt you, the punishment for doing that will be even harder because you know better. we all fall short of the glory of God but venegence is not ours..we are to love one another-yes it gets hard sometime that’s why the vows say for better or worse..”na that’s my story & i’m sticking to it!”

  29. kimberly

    July 17, 2014 at 12:39 am

    And sadly Anastasia your filthy azz trailer park parents laid up like low lifed dogs and had sex without protection and sadly produced garbage like you in our society.But yet you are here!Chillin with the blacks…

  30. Cynthia

    July 17, 2014 at 11:29 am

    Yes we all are human and not perfect and we all have sinned BUT accepting the call of GOD should mean SOMETHING. As a preacher of the GOSPEL/GOD’s WORD, there has to be some kind of conviction in your spirit when you stand before people and most of all when you stand before GOD. If you cant hold up the standard of being a minister then sit down until you get it right. I think that we as “humans” use that excuse alot, “we are human and nobody is perfect” It seems like we are justifing our wrong doing. Sin is sin, if you dont have it right just pray fast, and walk in your deliverance and when you get it right THEN do GOD’s work with clean hands. Clean hands meaning” not Practicing sin”. Thats just my opinion. I’m not condemning but lifting all of them up in prayer. God Bless

  31. Wayne

    July 17, 2014 at 8:22 pm

    I love your response Cynthia.

  32. Wayne

    July 17, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    I love your response Cynthia

  33. sheila

    July 20, 2014 at 9:33 am

    You have to know when you are being played. Anatasia wanted to see a group of people get upset. She just might be BLACK. Hmmmmm. Think about it. No response from the person who started the negative comments. Peace

  34. sheila

    July 20, 2014 at 9:36 am

    As for the preachers…….they are men and women before they are anything else. Don’t put so much faith in them. Put you faith in God. Peace

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