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College Student Accidentally Sends Nαked “Sëxt” Message to Dad Instead of Boyfriend

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Nyjah Cousar accidentally sent her father an inappropriate message that was meant for her boyfriend while in the shower.

Nyjah Cousar

Reported by Andrew Scot Bolsinger

An inadvertent pocket dial is rarely a good thing, but an inadvertent text of nαked photos mistakenly sent to a father instead of a boyfriend, well, it’s a nightmare, or perhaps an opportunty to star in a social media reality show of your own making.

That nightmare was all too true for Nyjah Amhari Cousar, a college student from Inglewood, California, who sent an image of herself while in the shower to “Daddy” rather than her boyfriend “Dasquan,” according to her Twitter feed.

“OMG how do you cancel a text message!!” she wrote.

Not only did she not cancel, she kept posting about her mishap.

Her father texted her, “Are you serious? Is this what you do while you’re at school?? for Money?”

After calling her and getting voice mail, he texted again, all of which Cousar posted to various social media networks.

“Nyjah I’m very disappointed that you aren’t answering my calls. I spoke with your mother and she’s disappointed as well. I’ll be at your house as soon as I get off so answer the door,” he texted, according to Nyjah’s screen grabs.

The comments began flying, including some that cautioned the screen grabs could be fakes: “It’s not that tough to stage iPhone screenshots, so this could be a hoax,” wrote Gawker. Cousar posted videos on her Instagram account that reveal what happened when her father finally got home. Where she locks herself in the bathroom.

“This aint no game,” her father says when she finally confronts him. “Your supposed to be [at school] taking care of business.”

Cousar spent most of the day updating her Twitter followers, and recently retweeted a message from her sister, Christina Manning.

“Always knew my sister would get big off something crazy. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Swear @dearfashionn came out the womb reckless,” Manning wrote.

Cousar’s Twitter followers now number nearly 18,500. Her main photo is a provocative shot of her backside and her own little reality show seems to have drawn her the attention she desired, intentional or otherwise.

“You a fool,” one poster tweeted in response to the drama.


Andrew Scot Bolsinger won more than two dozen press awards during his journalism career. He is a freelance writer, author and, which is focused on prison reform. He can reached at and can be followed @CriminalUniv on Twitter.


  1. The Who's Who

    July 10, 2014 at 11:44 am

    Only if parent(s) were fully aware of what their darling little daddy’s girls are really doing these days. I mean look at her in the photo(smh).. that look and pose is saying nothing but come and have sex with me and she look HIGH as a kite also. The photo is provocative at its very least…and its good thing that this happened the way it did, daddy received the photo and not some sexual pervert that she may be dating or have recently met..

  2. VNR

    July 10, 2014 at 11:55 am

    Our children are completely lost. We have baby them to much and now its all about them and no one else.

  3. William Jackson

    July 10, 2014 at 4:38 pm

    The issue is to continue to set high expectations and teach values at a young age. Teens and young adults will still do what they want that is why parents need to stay connected and involved not judge. No one is above stupid mistakes

  4. Old Enought to be your Grandmother

    July 10, 2014 at 4:46 pm

    I have only one thing to say. Embarrassing. Act like a lady, get an education and be productive in life. Limited the sexting to clothes on and earn the respect of others.

  5. ericaf

    July 10, 2014 at 5:19 pm

    I’m always fascinated that young people today put everything, and I mean everything on social media. All she needed to do was ask for advice on how to delete the text, end of story. Now her actions has put the spotlight on her parents and herself. They must be so disappointed. A beautiful young lady sending naked pictures to a boyfriend who will most likely not be her husband. And he may possibly share with others if the relationship ends badly. Sad.

  6. Wil May

    July 11, 2014 at 12:55 am

    The younger black generation to put it succinctly: Young black males are on life support, and young black females are in critical condition.

  7. AshleyCFromBrooklyn

    July 11, 2014 at 8:47 pm

    In all honesty, she’s a college kid and made a mistake sending the message to her dad instead of her boyfriend. I don’t see how this makes her any less of a woman or a person.

    At least she’s not 15, doing a twerk video.

  8. AshleyCFromBrooklyn

    July 11, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    However I will say be careful who you send these pics to. If the guy dumps you he might share your pics with the whole college

  9. Devon

    July 11, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    Once you send a text you can delete off YOUR phone but you cant delete off the person you sent it to phone once you hit send its sent. Yall wanna know why some blkmn dont respect blkwmn well the chick textin nekked pics is exhibit A.

  10. no

    July 12, 2014 at 4:09 pm

    I guess it all depends on your status as parents cause some people do teach there kids but I guess its not the kids or parent that the society or whoever wants to see doing the right thing

  11. Kiesha makins

    July 15, 2014 at 8:26 am

    Gots to be more Careful!!!!?

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