The R Kelly debacle: What do you do if your daughter wants to be a boy?

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The singer R. Kelly is being criticized for yet another incident involving an underage girl.  This girl happens to be his daughter, and it’s not the kind of accusation that he has faced in the past.  In this case, Kelly is being criticized for refusing to accept his daughter’s decision to change her gender.

Kelly’s daughter Jaya no longer wants to be a girl.  The 14-year old made the decision to live her life as a boy and is now asking that her parents and friends refer to her as “Jay.”  R. Kelly says that he is not interested in seeing his daughter turn herself into his son.  According to TMZ, he still refers to the young woman as Jaya and not Jay.  She is still a woman because she hasn’t had gender reassignment surgery.

Andrea Kelly, R. Kelly’s ex-wife, says that referring to the young woman as Jaya is insulting.  “That’s like calling him [R. Kelly] a background singer, not the king of R&B,” she said.

Is R. Kelly really the king of R&B?  Wasn’t that true back in 2005?

Andrea made headlines herself after divorcing her new husband Brian McKee after just two months over text messages he sent to other women.  So, it seems that a lot of members of the family are reversing their lives in short order.

Please tell us – should a 14-year old have the right to decide her gender at such an early age?  Does a 14-year old know enough about herself to even know how she wants to live the rest of her life, or could this be a phase she’s going through?  Is Jaya/Jay a boy or a girl?  You tell us.



  1. honestyhurts

    June 27, 2014 at 7:51 pm

    If any child want to go through this change and they can personally pay all of the medical expenses themselves then so be it. But as a parent I do not care what sex my child is as long as they are healthy sane and secure in being themselve and making sure they have used logic and gather all information and then they can make a wise and intelligent choice. Love your children for being a blessing and gift from God. He’s the real judge and jury not us.

  2. waymon lefall

    June 27, 2014 at 8:08 pm

    She may as well join the other 60% to 70%. It’s to late anyway.be he she or other who cares.

  3. Nita

    June 27, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    You do the same thing you do when deal with a black emasculated male who tries to be a female…

  4. madpoet429

    June 27, 2014 at 9:08 pm

    That’s Crazy as Hell! I’m with R Kelly, no Damn 14 yr old knows enough about life to say she wants to be a boy! She’s never been with a boy at this age, at least we hope! Her Mom is crazy as hell for accepting this bullshit & going along with it!

    • gee

      June 28, 2014 at 12:10 pm

      I agree. She is too young to make that decision. I think a lot of this comes from GAYS PUSHING THEIR AGENDA and CONFUSING CHILDREN..WHICH IS THEIR OBJECTIVE. TO BLUR THE SEXES.

  5. kimberly

    June 27, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    I am shocked that people ever thought that R Kelly the king of R&B!!! That’s a damn lie! anyway as far as the kid perhaps she is going through some stage…teens go through some crazy stuff…only time will tell on this one…

  6. SweetTweet

    June 27, 2014 at 10:21 pm

    Madpoet429 say it again. This is nonsense!

  7. Abdul-Polk

    June 27, 2014 at 11:38 pm

    Its a major sin like all other sins they will b dealt wit wen they die.. Ppl always obey man made issues/laws.. But they never obey the 1 who created us all … So obedient 2 da creation but not the CREATOR (ALLAH).. Sorry individuals… Get on ppl who do all type of sins not jus homosexuality..

  8. chuks

    June 28, 2014 at 12:13 am

    She just want to prepare herself for hell!

  9. chuks

    June 28, 2014 at 12:21 am

    You Americans are really trying God, so much.The little girl and her supporters are trying to tell God,that he does not know what he was doing ,when he made her a girl.Their’s God oh!


    June 28, 2014 at 12:37 am

    Thank-you r. Kelly

  11. Lisa

    June 28, 2014 at 1:38 am

    I don’t think this child should be allowed to have any type of surgery until she becomes an adult.

  12. Ms. Me

    June 28, 2014 at 3:19 am

    Question? If I (a Black woman) told you I’ve always hated being Black and wanted to bleach my skin, wear a blonde wig and blue contacts would you help support my change with encouragement or teach me to love myself? Why are we encouraging and
    teaching outboys to become girls and
    girls to become boys. Let’s teach our sons and daughters that they are beutiful,valueable and precious to God.

  13. kookie

    June 28, 2014 at 7:20 am

    I think R Kelly is right not to support her. I think that God gets to choose and he has spoken. She is a girl.

  14. BigJaE

    June 28, 2014 at 8:56 am

    God did not make a mistake but creating his DAUGHTER a FEMALE; a SHE; a HER!!! I wouldn’t support her desire to medically mutilate herself and go through life costumed as something SHE was not born: A MALE! Sexual deviancy seems to permiate R. Kelly’s cypher…

  15. ericaf

    June 28, 2014 at 9:03 am

    He had a daughter and she can never be a son. I agree with him, at that age she is not aware of enough to be making life altering decisions. Maybe it’s time for him to step up and be a father to the girl. If he wasn’t so busy p€€!ng on people he would have seen what was going on and guide her. Andrea is busy trying to fill the void and feel valued after his mess so she’ll probably accept anything from the kids to show the love that they may be missing. Sad all around.

  16. Billie Stoker

    June 29, 2014 at 5:46 am

    We must prayerfully enlighten our sons and daughters by letting them know it is an absolute impossibility for anyone to change their gender. The literal definition of the word WOMan is man with a womb. Choice of lifestyle and/or MANipulation of genital organs cannot change one’s gender. It is imperative that we instill within our children knowledge as to the unchanging difference between male/MAN and female/WOMan. There is not and there cannot be a surgical procedure to enable a male to become pregnant with child, or cause a placenta to form. There cannot ever be a surgical procedure to MANipulate a womb into the body of a man; nor an umbilical cord to nourish a baby within the body of a man. There are surgical procedures that MANipulate organs for sexual intercourse, but there is not and there cannot be a surgical procedure to implant within the body of a man, a birth canal which will expand for a baby to come through. Perfect love for our sons and daughters will not allow them to be deceived into thinking their choice of lifestyle will change their gender. Let us not forsake wisdom.

  17. John. B. Pierre

    June 29, 2014 at 9:01 am

    I agree with R.Kelly, he had a girl not a boy, her name is Jaya and that what he know her by. God created her and it’s not her right to decide what gender she should be. Felt so sorry for what Cher had to go through and now I feel the same for RKelly.

  18. T

    June 29, 2014 at 11:54 am

    Criticized for what? He doesn’t have to accept anything. Again society is trying to make people embrace gender changes and homosexuality. Not everyone is receptive to this. Hell I don’t care what sex change you get. Born a boy always a boy. If you get the sex change you will NEVER. HAVE A CHILD OR MENSTRUAL! As For Girls The SAME! You Will Be A Girl Always. Unbelievable! Society Is A Trip! Always Trying To Push This on EVERYONE! you cannot do that. R. Kelly stand by your decision.

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