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Remember what Halle said about dating black men?

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Halle Berry recently made news after being told by a judge to pay $16,000 per month in child support to her child’s father, Gabriel Aubry.  Aubry and Berry have a 6-year old daughter together by the name of Nahla.  The support amount was surprising, especially since Berry was also hit with $115,000 in back child support and another $300,000 in legal fees, according to TMZ.

The stunning amount of support that Berry was ordered to pay has surprised those who normally expect the man to be the one writing big checks for a child.   It has also led to a big, fat “I told you so” from those who have been offended by Halle’s recent preference for dating white men.  According to critics, the grass is greener on the other side, but if you enter into bad relationships, you’re always going to have bad outcomes.

Here is what Berry said during a 2009 interview with Essence Magazine.

“I tried Black men. I tried,” she said. “I married two Black men. You know I tried.  I don’t hold all Black males responsible because of the two bad eggs I got. I even dated Black men after my last divorce, but this is just where I found love.”

So, it doesn’t sound like Halle abandoned black men altogether and she did do her best.  But you have to ask just how good Halle is at maintaining good relationships.

What do you think? Does race have nothing to do with it?

Here is an interesting take on Halle Berry from a blogger whose name we don’t know.  But the video is pretty funny.  She explains, in her own admittedly vulgar way, that Halle Berry just might be a little bit off in her relationships.

You have to admit that you’ve also asked yourself that question over the years.   Give us your thoughts.


  1. Tiamtte

    June 10, 2014 at 11:48 am

    It’s not a racial issue. She just doesn’t have good luck in love. I am in the same category. I don’t have her money of course, but I chose very badly also. I was married to a black man and had a black boyfriend after my divorce. I dated a white man after that and it didn’t end well either. Now, I am content to be by myself. I don’t have the time or patience for the drama involved in trying to love men who don’t understand what love is when they find it. Black or white or any other race, all men are the same. Finding a good one is a blessing, I just didn’t find him and don’t feel like looking.

    • Jah Larry Dread

      June 13, 2014 at 7:17 pm

      Its not a racial issue? If the man was black with the best attorneys in the business he would have no where near this settlement.

  2. ericaf

    June 10, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    Men who are not ready to be good in relationships are in all races and are all ages.

  3. SweetTweet

    June 10, 2014 at 12:28 pm

    Halle appeared to really love David Justice.

  4. Dale

    June 10, 2014 at 12:33 pm

    The real significance in this story is a black man would not have been awarded any money for child support in this situation. The expression “i told you so” I beleive is addressing that. Its gonna cost her to be with white men if shes gonna lay down and have children with them. Poor choices in men didn’t get her that debt to that man, white supremacy did.

    • Sakonya

      June 11, 2014 at 5:41 pm

      Dale, You are so right! I wrote on another site basically the same thoughts about Halle having to pay this man so much because he is white. No Black man would have ever been awarded this much money. Its the same when Black men date or marry a white woman and she pops out a baby to insure that she will get “paid”. Look at Tiger Woods and Michael Strahan as two examples. Tiger went and got the whitest woman he could find and he is paying for it now, with a divorce settlement worth millions, if not billions. This is where Black wealth is going, right back to the white community because some of us insist that white is a better choice for a mate. Well, when it all goes bad, which it almost always does, they have no one but themselves to blame. The white man is always going to look out for himself and take from the Black man, when and whatever he can.


    June 10, 2014 at 12:56 pm

    She may have security issues, and until she finds her true self she will always have relationship issues.

  6. Ric

    June 10, 2014 at 3:00 pm

    It’s nothing new she tried black men but nothing happened then she tried a white man and got stung. But to be fair he new she was rich

  7. kimberly

    June 10, 2014 at 3:12 pm

    Race doesn’t have anything to do with it…people are attracted to who they are attracted to period…the heart doesn’t see color…she was married to 2 black men and had a baby by a white men,….all 3 men regardless of their color are garbage.Simple.

  8. T Savannah Georgia

    June 10, 2014 at 4:46 pm

    Thank you Tiamtte I appreciate you sharing your story. Ditto, ditto.

  9. ARJ

    June 10, 2014 at 4:49 pm

    I agree with Dale. I don’t understand why Halle Berry has to pay child support to a man that doesn’t have the child. It is my understanding that she is the custodial parent. To me, she is paying a high price for this man’s sperm. She would have gotten off cheaper to go to a sperm bank. All she is doing is paying a lazy, no talented white man who obviously can’t get a job. His job is living off a rich woman. he is a modern day gigolo.

    • Regina

      June 11, 2014 at 3:07 pm

      The press did not want to use the word “ALIMONY.”

  10. Blackbeard

    June 10, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    I feel sorry 4 her. But then again wite devils do not have a problem giving other white people black`s hard earned currency. It would really have to b an xtreme case. Take Hurricsne carter all the years spent in prison with no compensation fot the malice done by whitey. My point is they will take ur money and give it to their kind in a heart beat on the other side of the coin she got nothin comin!!

  11. Mrs

    June 10, 2014 at 10:46 pm

    She gives right back to the white folks. She’s foolish. And brothers A LWAYS talking about bet outside looks. They’re foolish also. THEY ALL NEED TO WAKE UP AND BE MORE CONSCIOUS, JUST LIKE MORGAN FREEMAN AND MANY OTHERS…

  12. William Clark III

    June 11, 2014 at 8:32 am

    She is noting thanking with her mine she is thanking with her Pu.

  13. Tiamtte

    June 11, 2014 at 3:20 pm

    How do we expect white people to let the race issue die when we won’t? Wake up people. It isn’t about race, it’s about money. Hollywood is not like the rest of the world. All you need is a very good lawyer. The argument is that because they share custody, the child should continue to have the same lifestyle her mother provides. Halle is worth a lot of money and what seems like a lot of money to the average person is not a lot in Hollywood. If Halle had not played the stupid game and try and move the child out of the country and other silly things, it may not have been like this. She tried to label him abusive and didn’t want him to see the child. The new guy roughed him up and the nanny claimed he attacked her. This has been a battle for over 3 years. Anger from both sides caused this. Sad that people can’t imagine this man could possibly love his child and want the best for her. Halle played a very bad hand and lost. People are only upset about the money. Eric Benet also burned her and made her pay child support for his (not her) child. At least she and this guy were actually parents. Someone implied that this might not have happened if the father were black. Many black men behave as if they cease to be a father when the relationship is over.

    I just hope Sherry Shepherd is taking notes.

    • MALIKI

      June 19, 2014 at 11:26 pm

      Men of all races have negative characteristics. But a black man is the only one that people think is no good…all the time!!!

  14. Gail

    June 11, 2014 at 3:20 pm

    First of all Diabetes can be reversed. Halley probably should take time more time alone. Dr. Phil helped me learn. People learn at different rates. Who knows what she really wants. There is something fishy about the custodial parent paying child support.

  15. Pernell Parham

    June 11, 2014 at 9:54 pm

    I think after her problems with black men, she wanted a change. The thing is, you attract what you want, but is what she wants, right for her? Introspection is needed here. If you are confused about what you want, you will accept anything that looks good.

  16. noir

    June 12, 2014 at 12:05 am

    What does it matter, she dated a loser and now he is living off her, no different that Duane Wade’s baby mama sitting by the road side waiting for a child support check. Losers come in a shades of color. Halle Berry should not be laughed at, laugh at anyone black or white who thinks another person owes them a pay check. Its all part of Obama-economics, sit on your ass and get it from someone.

  17. Gmore

    June 12, 2014 at 2:57 pm

    Halle,seem like have had some bad realtionship.She have date BLACK man & WHITE man and she have came out on the loseing end.That should make her think what is going wrong in my life.I have MONEY,GOOD LOOKS,BIG HOUSE,CHILDREN BY TWO DIFFERENT MAN and so on.So whats next?Halle you need to try someone that do not need you money,your good looks,your big house, but will love you and your childre for every if you try him.And his name is GOD,he will neve let you down, he will never take advantage of you or take you for granite.The only thing he will do for you is LOVE you for every if you have a personal relationship with him.Not MAN but with GOD and only GOD and erevything you need will come.

  18. Jah Larry Dread

    June 13, 2014 at 6:05 pm

    Good for him! Women want equal rights! Here’s your equal!

  19. Alexa

    June 14, 2014 at 1:50 pm

    Unfortunately, as great as a “race issue” is for a good story, the plain, simple truth regarding the child support payments to her ex, is that here in the state of California, child custody and child support can be determined separately. Halle has physical custody but the two share custody of their daughter. Since her ex made a lucrative living as a model when they got together (she met him on a shoot for Gucci), he moved to CA to be with Halle during her pregnancy and gave up a good portion of his career to help care for their daughter. Halle said “things didn’t work out” but didn’t plan for her ex to sue for joint custody. He actually wanted to be a part of his daughters life. Halle did things like try and make it seem as though he was a bad father, etc. In the end, the court awarded the ex child support in that amount based upon the money he WOULD have made if he had kept modeling and what was needed to raise the child in the lifestyle to which she was accustomed. It really is just that simple.

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