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Wrong? Real Housewives Husband Was Going to Leave Because She Couldn’t Have Sexx with Him

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Cynthia Bailey from the show “Real Housewives of Atlanta,” says that the last two years of her marriage were extremely difficult.  She had some health problems involving fibroids, and it has caused problems in her marriage.  As you might know, it’s difficult to make love when you are in this condition, and this caused a rift with her husband.

The tumors were non-cancerous, which means that her life was not in danger.   But she did gain 20 pounds and found that her husband, Peter Thomas, was on his last legs when it came to their marriage.  According to an interview Bailey did with Life & Style Magazine, had she not gotten fibroid surgery, her husband would have gone someplace else.

“We’d be divorced for sure,” Cynthia said.

Peter isn’t holding back, stating that his needs did matter in the relationship.  Part of the expectation of marriage is providing physical affection, and since the issue could be corrected with surgery, he expected his wife to take the necessary steps to make their marriage work.

“I know we would have been done,” he said to Life & Style. “There is absolutely no way we could have survived another year if things hadn’t changed.”

The couple says that Cynthia’s sex drive was effectively dead. She felt bloated all the time and it hurt for her to sleep with her husband.  She says that they would go months without sleeping together, and this upset her husband a great deal.   He even says that he was going to head to Venezuela to find a woman on the side to fulfill his physical needs.

“Me and my buddies were planning a trip to Venezuela because nobody knows us there,” he said.

Cynthia says that, now that she has gotten the necessary surgery, their marriage is back on track and things are going well again.

Does this story make you think of her husband as a bad person or a man who is simply honest about his needs?  If she could get surgery to reignite their sex life, does she owe that to her husband or should he just grin and bear it?