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Black Female Blogger Asks Evelyn’s New Man: Why Did You Impregnate an Evil Gold Digger?

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Is Evelyn Lozada a poison for successful black men? Some people think so.  A blogger writing for the site, wrote an open letter to Carl Crawford, the wealthy baseball player who is reported to be the latest “baby daddy” in Evelyn’s new pregnancy drama.  This comes on the heels of her 30-second marriage to Chad Johnson and previous engagement to broke NBA player, Antoine Walker.

The writer, Ashley Naples, seems to be speaking for all normal black women when she asks if Crawford could have made a better choice than Evelyn to be the mother of his child.

Just so you know, I have no interest in discussing the baby’s name or how you feel about the pregnancy. I’m writing you because my friends and I can’t seem to understand why men of your caliber (e.g. talented, wealthy, attractive) choose to tie yourself down, whether by marriage and/or with a baby, to a woman who doesn’t exude intelligence, class, and substance.

Ashley continues on by calling out Evelyn’s ugliness and pettiness, which has become part of her brand.  She also refers to Evelyn as a “gold digger.”

“We’re talking about a woman who is best-known for the phrase ‘Non-mothaf*cking factor.’ Exactly how did you manage to overlook the fact that Evelyn’s track record clearly shows that she’s a gold-digger?” she asked.

Ashley questions whether or not Carl has chosen a woman who upgrades his life or one who will ultimately destroy him.  She notes all of the men in Evelyn’s past who’ve been ruined by their decision to be with her, and says that she doesn’t want him to be the next.  The 32-year old Crawford earns a stunning $20 million dollars per year and is a hot commodity.  Lozada, on the other hand, is not only six years older, but she’s also known for leaving men busted financially.

After spending 10 years with Evelyn, Antoine is broke. After being married to Evelyn for approximately a month, Chad is heading down the same path as Antoine. What do you believe awaits your fate? Unlike the aforementioned, you are forever connected to her through the baby whether you choose to marry her or not.

Does Ashley have a point?  Does she also speak for every black woman who has been frustrated to see successful black men choose the wrong women to share themselves with?

You can read her article and ask her yourself. 


  1. Keith

    December 11, 2013 at 10:57 pm

    Evelyn is a a roving wolf in sheep’s clothing looking to devour her prey. She’s like a black widow. She mates and she kills the sprit of her mates by sucking them dry financially, and destroying their careers. I wonder how many married men she slept with. It’a just a matter of time before she gets what’s coming to her. What she needs about now is a strong black woman to give her a beat down for disrespecting the black race.

  2. Chris Belton

    December 12, 2013 at 12:12 am

    Fred Sanford would say something like this. You so dumb you make a third grade dropout look like a genius! You haven’t known this gold digging skank for a year, how you gonna run up in this non-mothaf*king factor without a condom and get her knocked up? Your problem is you think with your lil head and your lil head is dumber than your big head and your big head is dumber than a box of rocks so neither one of them could think their way out of a wet paper bag on the beach at high tide!! You BIG Dummy!! All jokes aside. After knowing Evelyn’s track record, if Carl Crawford thinks he can afford this garden tool, ya’ll just sit back and watch how it unfolds. Either way I won’t be keeping track or holding my breath with anticipation because I could care less about what they do or how it all plays out.

  3. Tawanza

    December 12, 2013 at 2:11 am

    Y’all all sound like some haters to me u don’t see anything wrong with what Evelyn’s doing if this her man then so what . If Antoine broke that’s his fault & if chad becomes broke that’s his fault also cause if that nigga head butted me I probably would have shot his ass his ass play ball & gone head butt a bitch. People always got shit to say if this man wanna have a baby with this woman & marry her u Mfs shouldn’t worry about it cause if mr Crawford happens to become broke as y’all say then that’s his fault u gotta always protect your assets I wish them all the happiness & people stay out their biz

  4. tee

    December 12, 2013 at 10:20 am

    She is absolutely right. These men are idiots and these women are predators who go from one man to another. They have no real substance or purpose other than to find some rich guy to latch on to and get pregnant as quickly as possible. I used to work around basketball players when I was a kid and I heard and saw ALL kinds of stories about these skanky women.

  5. J. D. Hill

    December 14, 2013 at 12:33 am

    Men, look at it this way. It’s not her fault if a woman gets pregnant by your sperm!

  6. Dee

    December 20, 2013 at 10:27 pm

    Evelyn made sure she got a kid so she could keep money coming in. He laid up and dumped one right on in her like a dummy. 18 years of paychecks.

    • Jah Larry Dread

      December 21, 2013 at 10:12 am

      If she has the baby in New Jersey and the child goes to college full-time…23 years!

  7. Nato2

    December 20, 2013 at 11:10 pm

    A woman with her looks and body will likely take any man to the bank, well most. What I don’t like about this is there are plenty of decent women out there, but they spend too much time in church, praying for a man, while women like her spend time on the prowl preying on men. She give black women a bad rep, but ladies stop selling on the internet, posing nude on the internet and computer gyrating nude on the net. It is likely that men cannot truly tell the difference between our beautiful upstanding sisters and low-life’s. So, we take any pretty face and nice body that comes along. What has happened to our people?

  8. Butch

    December 21, 2013 at 12:04 am

    He knew what he was getting into. She wanted a paycheck, now she got it. GOD is great tho, be careful what u do in this life! Karma comes full circle LMFAO

  9. Musa Mahlangu

    December 21, 2013 at 1:29 am

    Give a man a blow job before he asks and then do it well. I’m sorry if that’s crude but unfortunately most guys think with their heads, but they think with their ‘member’ first. This woman understand that guys, Even ‘high quality’ ones are not too complicated at all.

  10. chantaey

    December 21, 2013 at 2:00 am

    why can’t she just admit she’s glad to see her stop chasing wealthy black men and hunt down her own kind.

  11. donerik black

    December 21, 2013 at 6:26 am

    One tends to assume that with money comes intelligence. Thats not true. That rich men and gold digging women come together is as natural as slick men and gullible women. The two groups are one in the same. Her past didn’t mean anymore to him than a man with eight kids past means to mother number nine. Everyone goes in thinking it will be different. But its not. So to this yoing man I say good luck. A fool and his money soon part.

  12. ericaf

    December 21, 2013 at 11:03 am

    Ashley Naples, since when what grown folks do in their personal lives is any of your business? Who died and made you judge? Not because someone is in public life you have that right. How are you living? Are you making choices with your life that are acceptable to everyone you know? You really need to step back and get a life.

  13. What

    December 21, 2013 at 5:54 pm

    Evelyn is a good looking women, but she’s toxic. Poor fella I guess he gotta learn like the rest

  14. Devon

    December 21, 2013 at 7:16 pm

    Carl Crawford is a SIMP and a GUMP. Evelyn will chew him up, spit him out, and take half his sheit. Oh well yall now the saying, when you lay down with goldigging hoes, you get up with empty pockets….GOOD LUCK, POTNA!!! LOL!!!

  15. Randy Taylor

    December 23, 2013 at 11:19 am

    Looking hard at her, reminds me of a Komodo Dragon,DANGER DANGER!!!

  16. Marvin

    December 23, 2013 at 6:19 pm

    I think the author needs to mind her own business. This man is grown and may have just been atracted to the woman for whatever qualities he finds attractive. He may have also handled some things legally when it comes to this baby or this could be a situation like many that exsist for us regular day to day folk and that is they started freaking without thinking and now she is pregnant .
    It is what it is and it’s nobodies bussiness but theirs, don’t you think? Mind yours and let him mind his…..

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