Scientists Explain Why Your Boyfriend Might Harm Your Children

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In two cities, relatively close to each other, two children were beαt to deαth. In both situations the mμrderers were the mother’s boyfriends. In Denver, the mother’s boyfriend was convicted of first-degree murder. In Nebraska, the jury will proceed with heaving evidence about the other case.

The details of each situation changes but the end results are all the same. The child is beαten and abμsed when the boyfriend goes into a rage and a child’s life is cut extremely short. The mother usually goes on to testify against the man she used to love or thought she could trust.

One of the confusing parts about the child abuse phenomenon is despite it being in the headlines so often, the statistics on boyfriends abμsing or kιllιng their girlfriend’s children is practically unheard of. What’s also missing is the explanation of why so many boyfriends chose to abμse their loved one’s children. One theory experts have is the fact that boyfriends find it easier to beαt or kιll children that don’t belong to them.

Some experts say that they are not surprised there are no statistics about the crimes. They say there’s not enough money being put into projects to investigate any kind of domestic abμse. A pediatrician named Carole Jenny did a study in Denver in 1995 that showed that 20% of all metro-area shaken-baby cases were perpetrated by the mother’s boyfriend. When she did a similar study in Rhode Island she found that 9% of all physical and sεxual- abuse cases were committed by the mother’s boyfriend.

Most abμse cases involving children are sadly committed about their own relatives. Jenny stated that we might just pay more attention to those cases so it seems like we see them all the time when we are not.


  1. Imhotep

    October 15, 2013 at 5:49 am

    Trick luv the kids… and 9%…so that means we should still be watching blood relatives also…Scewed study…Hotep

  2. Butch

    October 15, 2013 at 11:50 am

    These women will sell their kids for CAWK! SMDH!!! Sad to the 10th power!

  3. lavon R

    October 15, 2013 at 12:27 pm

    Ladies and gentlemen: STOP ALLOWING EVERY HANDSOME GUY OR PRETTY LADY AROUND OUR CHILDREN!! As adults our initial goal is getting to know our guy or girl, he or she don’t have any business knowing your children until you are comfortable and secure with this individual,protect your children,let them enjoy you,not him or her so soon!!! Impress your damn self!

    • E.F. Coleman

      October 15, 2013 at 6:40 pm

      Exactly, they usually allow these men in their children’s lives TOO soon. They don’t even know these men themselves, they try to move too fast.Whether handsome or pretty do NOT let these predators near your children.That is your job to protect your children.


    October 16, 2013 at 6:42 am

    First and foremost, can you say background check? “Oh girl he is cute and has muscles.” When one applies for a job, they want to know about that gap in your employment record and other things pertaining to your history. This guy had a track record for violence. Looking at his race, he does not fit the typical profile, “just being real” So who does he hang with and where does he hang out at. I would venture to speculate that he is a hood rat with anger management issues. Ladies understand this one thing, men do not look at it as an honor to watch some other man’s children, if anything, it may be degrading. Let me put it another way, either the man love’s babysitting another man’s child or hates it, you figure him out. In the lion’s kingdom, all babies have to go, so that big papa can spend time with mom. No gray area. We are closer to the animal kingdom that you think, the only difference is that gray area.

  5. Wheniwassifited

    October 16, 2013 at 4:20 pm

    Sad. Dating over children, Hmmmm, choose children first– always. They are innocent and harmless. Still, i Grieve for the Mothers in spite of it because theirs is a lifetime sentence more than the perpetrator who will disconnect from her and the murdered children.

    • Jeanette Price

      October 19, 2013 at 5:36 am

      Very true!!!

  6. Shirley Quinn

    October 19, 2013 at 5:35 pm

    Lord Have Mercy; The mind and state of a so-called Lonely woman is a Sad Picture of Mothers that put their man, any man, in front of their child, their Blood… *Children are Our Glowing Promise, Our Heritage, Uncut, a Blank Slate; A Gift from God; ready to be Loved, Taught, and Protected by any means possible!!! Motherly instincts should always be focused and surrendered towards the child. Mothers who allow men into their homes without thought of what may happen, of what could happen is a vile travesty of motherhood. I read a child-abuse article that stated men stalk and seek women who only have young children; and that mother has a lack of money coming into the home; he begins to lavish her with money; then she lets him in to live with her and her child. Consequently, sometimes the man comes, broke, begging, and shoveling pitiful in your face, and you fall for it, in between jobs… The Risks are so high when this male stranger invades the home with the money so needed by mother, she allows him great brevity, immediately, the child abuse starts. The male is really after your child – not you… Wake Up, Sit Up, and replace Desire_ with pray; values, principles and the safety of your child. Never leave your man as a babysitter, never let him bath or undress your child. Never let him take the child anywhere without you being present… It is extremely difficult to tell a woman not to bring a live-in man into her life and the child. Their state of maturity, honesty, addressing the problem is on a scale of (1…) Prayers are needed, reading the Bible; Learn that your sexual needs is not Priority… To raise that child free from Junk *Is… A responsible mother has to be groomed, Spiritual/Know God;trained and have insight. Every pretty face and a fine walk does not make a man – many times within lies A monster, liar, Bipolar/aka=Crazy; plus disease/perhaps HIV. The home should be a caring atmosphere of love and concern. Remember mother; healthy, Safe, and a Sound environment is paramount!!!. Learn Not to Trust everything, Learn to Test the inclination, the conversation, the background of the individual man. Dating reveals a plethora of ills; if Mother, you are on Guard and on watch for a Demon; but you must have discernment… Learn mother, not to expose your children to a variety of men; every one comes with a different technique to get over. The most precious being in your life Is your Child. Try decency, Try honor, Try Respect, and raise your child so she or he can call you Mommie and the meaning is for real; with Love. Lord Have Mercy…

    • fred sims

      November 14, 2013 at 8:54 am

      Don’t have sex with him for at least two months. ask him to go to church(major buzz kill).Meet his family. Talk to him about what he does for a living? Does he believe in God? Doe she know anything about current events? Does he eat with his hands/ what does he tink about his father/ Where is his father?

  7. Olivia Pope

    October 20, 2013 at 4:00 pm

    I don’t understand why one would allow these people access to their children. In addition, how would you not know if someone was abusing your child. Don’t parents talk to children anymore? Wouldn’t you notice if the child is fearful around the man? Testifying in court after the fact is too late.

  8. Devon

    November 11, 2013 at 9:27 am

    If I was stupid enough to get knocked up and end up a single mother I wouldn’t trust ANY man around the kid except his biological father IF he was worth a sheit. My home would be a sanctuary and safe haven for my kid.

  9. idk

    November 11, 2013 at 9:54 am

    My 23yearold biological father takes her to clubafter 12midnight..around 40 something year old men..shes grown and feels that this is a responsible act..Lord help us all

  10. kdd

    November 11, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    It’s the Daddy Factor that many women are suffering from, the romanticizing of the “father figure” that little girls grow up with. Women want that strong nurturing paternal instinct to be in their men so that their children will have a healthy relationship with the father figure. However, too often women bring “FROGS” around their children, and Prince Charming remains absent because Prince Charming is a myth. We have to see the individual for who he really is. Yes, it’s great to have a father’s love, and a father’s love is beneficial. But you cannot bring a man around your children who resents that the children are not his, and who often has a hidden agenda. That hidden agenda may be that he only wants the mother, enjoys the fringe benefits of a sexual or romantic relationship with the mother but secretly things that the children are a “blow” to the relationship. Too often the mother is so desperate to have a man and a father for her children, that she closes her eyes to the obvious. That man aint really into your children but you trust him to babysit your child. Your boyfriend resents that he went along with the “my children and I are a PACKAGE! You want me you gotta accept them too!” He wants the ill-na-na but he aint studn’t your kids and if you keep insisting that this dude who never had a decent relationship with his own daddy, be able to be a father to your children, you are going to set yourself up for heartbreak. You cannot make someone be a daddy to your child if he doesn’t want to be a dad to your child. And a man that will break a child’s body is a broken bastard anyway! Stop digging an early grave for your children just so you can have a fake daddy for your children!!!

  11. Kira

    November 12, 2013 at 8:32 am

    These comments are disturbing. Though there are some cases where the parent trusts too soon that is not always the case. I believe people should wait and the moms I know do wait a heck of a long time before introducing anyone. Additionally, DEVON not every single mother got knocked up!!! Some of us were married and ended up divorced for various reasons. Once again people blame the fate of the world on single mothers and that’s pathetic. There are a significant number of single mothers who raise healthy children and end up in healthy relationships. Most abuse happens from BLOOD RELATED family members. That is a fact!

  12. Kira

    November 12, 2013 at 8:40 am

    And another thing that bothers me about this is if you check the news there are many fathers whose girlfriends and wives have killed or abused their children too. The fact is all children are at risk in today’s evil world and we all need to do a better job protecting them instead of passing judgement on others. The dyfunction we breed in our culture by downing people in a generalized statement is incredible to me.

  13. Lynise31

    November 12, 2013 at 7:43 pm

    Wow! I was just watching a Television show where The mom comes out on the panel, she’s (6) months pregnant says she Loves! her man of (6) months. Her Mother and sister comes out and allgedges that the boyfriend has been But of course Molesting her daughter. Mom was so in deniel she told her mom that could not! be true he’s such a charming, witty, handsome, man there’s No Way! when the lie detector test came back Yup, he was guilty as sin standing there still!!!! lying saying he didn’t do it. Ladies, please! watch, watch, Teach, and protect your children. we can’t be there as parents 24/7 However, we can Not bring strange, thirsty, minipulating, Pervs around our children. i can’t Phanthom the fact that my Boyfriend is touching my son or my daughter. I don’t trust No-0ne!!!!!!!!! around my children. and I’ve never left them alone with strange men. my Family are very close knit and the lovey kissey type of folk. However, those type of men can sense that and they’ll take it, and run with it. so I stopped my daughters from kissing on the cheek and hugging and touching. These stories are Horriffic!! Breaks my heart 🙁

  14. fred sims

    November 14, 2013 at 8:48 am

    Dud, the kids ain’t his.They belong to another dude who sexed before he did.Most likley he’s not watching the kids he’s fathered by another woman (the boyfirend) as well. Also consider that most black female homicides and dong by the victims boyfriend. You might want to watch your back as well as your kid’s.

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