Ex-Girlfriend of HIV Pastor Speaks Out with an Open Letter to the Public

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Most of you have read the story about Craig Lamar Davis, the ordained minister who is being accused of having unprotected s*x with multiple partners while being HIV-positive.   A blog published a letter from a woman by the name of Ronita McAfee, who gives a well-documented take on Pastor Davis’ behavior and warns the community about him.
We are proud of Ms. McAfee for showing the courage to write this letter and encourage you to check her references as well.  The letter was obtained from a blogger that Ms. McAfee mailed it to.  She appears to want to get the word out.  We are looking forward to hearing if the pastor has another side to the story, but his story will likely be told in court.
Greetings,
It is my sincerest prayer that this email finds you in great spirit. My name is Ronita McAfee and I am the victim in the HIV Reckless case in Clayton County, GA, where Mr. Craig Lamar Davis is the Defendant. I have been spiritually unrested not sending out this email since Mr. Davis’ release from jail on August 9, 2012 after his Preliminary Hearing. I hope that you find this email helpful and not distasteful.

It is my intentions to forewarn as many unsuspecting people as possible thatMr.Craig Lamar Davis IS HIV POSITIVE since the Clayton County, GA, courts found it necessary to approve him a $30,000 bond after initially denying him. Mr. Davis was released on bail compliments to his wife, Jan. He was detained for almost 3 weeks. The courts defense is that exposing people to HIV is not a violent crime therefore a bond is entitled. Additionally, Mr. Davis shows no regard for the human life as it relates to his HIV positive status and having s****l contact with men and/or women. And it is also my belief that he is a flight risk. I went over and beyond making this known to the District Attorney’s office and still they found it in the best interest to approve Mr. Davis for a bond.
Mr. Davis has constantly denied his HIV positive status even after admitting to the detective at the Atlanta Police Department. Clayton County, GA, Assistant District Attorney, Sheryl Freeman confirmed that Mr. Davis is HIV positive and that he has stipulations surrounding his bond. (DUH!) I am just p****d that he even got a bond knowing that he has 2 cases (Fulton County, GA and Clayton County, GA) with the exact same charge: Reckless HIV. You can Google the GA code (16-5-60c) or call your local GA authorities and see how the charge actually reads. Please note that one does not have to be HIV positive to file charges against Mr. Davis ifthey have had s****l intercourse with him, protected or unprotected. Should Mr. Craig Lamar Davis have s****l intercourse with anyone and not disclose his HIV POSITIVE status prior to, it is a FELONY offense carrying up to a 10 year sentence. Thankful to God that I am negative (see attached results).
Clayton County, GA, removed Mr. Davis’ information from their website once he was released on bail. He is non active in their system but one can go to ClaytonCounty and access the information from Clayton County Superior Court records because it is public. There is a minimal fee. Even I would have to pay for it and I am the victim in the case.
This email is only for informational purposes and to let the people of the church know because it is alleged that Mr. Davis has been sexually rampant in the church. It is also alleged that 2 gentleman of Changing A Generation Full Gospel has alleged that Mr. Davis infected them with the HIV virus. They are said to be 23 & 24 years old.
I attached pictures as a means to identify Mr. Davis if you don’t know him by name or maybe you can associate him with his wife, Jan, being that she works at Changing A Generation as Bishop Morton’s executive assistant. Their wedding picture was reproduced from Facebook (Jan’s page) since Mr. Davis shut his page down after someone exposed or threatened to expose his HIV positive status.
Mr. Davis’ s****l history would not be a topic if he was not HIV positive presupposing he only has s*x with consenting adults. He was a member of Divine Faith in Jonesboro, GA, where he was ordained as a minister. There he allegedly dated the pastor’s daughter and slept with countless others. He was also a member of Wings of Faith in Connelly, GA, where he allegedly dated the pastor’s executive assistant and countless others. He then wandered to other churches while sleeping with countless others and ended up at Changing A Generation in Atlanta, GA, where he dated the pastor’s executive assistant (Jan) and then married her only 10 days after divorcing his previous wife (Wanda PreTina Davis), per Fulton County’s public records. Then he started attending Changing A Generation in Decatur, GA, where he was the head armor bearer and was dating a woman in a leadership position there and actually gave her the HIV virus. It is said that he recently joined Elizabeth Baptist Church in Atlanta, GA (one week prior to his July 22nd arrest. You can also Google Mr. Davis’ name and his arrest and charge will appear).
*The timeframes of his church affiliations have not been exacted as of yet but it has been within the last 10 years. Acknowledging who Mr. Davis allegedly dated in the church is in no shape, form or fashion suggesting, implying and/or stating that either woman contracted HIV from Mr. Davis (with one exception) nor am I suggesting, implying and/or stating that either woman has HIV (with the one exception). The sole purpose of even mentioning Mr. Davis’ church affiliations is to show Mr. Davis’ pattern as he makes his presence known in the church.*
Mr. Craig Lamar Davis is a master manipulator: women have bought him cars, relocated and purchased homes under the impression that he was going to marry them, bought him countless suits and accessories (i.e. watches, ties, jewelry, shoes, etc.), given him their food stamp cards every month as if he’s entitled, depleted their checking and savings account on his behalf, etc. and he expects nothing less. He lurks at the church for his prey for some odd reason or another.
I encourage you to pass this information on especially to the Senior Pastor and to encourage people to get tested. I am being uncomfortably transparent with the hopes to help others. I have treated this as a private matter to benefit no one and have been spiritually unrested due to my disobedience to send this email. Please don’t use this as a footstool for gossip or to cause physical harm or harrass Mr. Davis. It is for ‘FYI’ purposes only. I have learned that the people that get tested are the people that are testing negative. People that are HIV positive do NOT test. They don’t have to because their status doesn’t change. If your partner does not test, assume he/she is HIV positive. Don’t rationalize this concept. It will keep you guarded and force you to protect yourself.
You may contact me directly at 404-***-****.
Sincerely,
Ronita R. McAfee

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84 Responses to Ex-Girlfriend of HIV Pastor Speaks Out with an Open Letter to the Public

  1. Micheal Wise

    My sister I feel it is a travesty what has been done to you and I think this double-minded hypocrite should go to jail for a loooong time. However, I feel sad that you were fornicating with a married man and have not offered a word of repentence. Please examine yourself, take stock in your spiritual state, go to God for forgiveness as well as encouragement. I will be praying for you and your spiritual, mental and physical healing. Yours in Christ.

    • Lady T

      Thank You Michael I was thinking the same thing. This letter never address HER wrong. Maybe if she had not be sleeping with someone else’s husband she or the other women wouldn’t have be in this situation.. AND I SAY MAYBE..

      • Louise Davis

        I am not saying that what he did is right but I agree you should not have been sleeping with a married man, and did he put a gun to any one head. Everybody have a choice.

    • Blossom

      Everyone must protect their self first. It is your responsibility to use protection when sleeping around. It is sad that it had to come to this.

    • Renae

      You are so right Micheal, I undrestand what has been done to this woman is a travesty but at the same time. She must give account for herself & what she has done. I to didnt see a word of repentance in her letter. God does know our heart & I feel that if you repent & continue to live right under the will of God. This will all work out for the good. He may think he’s gotten away with things, But God is all I can say. BUT GOD! He’s awesome in everyway & vengance is mine saidth the lord. So you don’t worry about him lady getting whats due him because he will. In due season.

    • Brian

      She owes no word but to god for Repentance.

    • Ginger

      Her repentence is not owed to you. It’s owed to God alone.

  2. forwarned

    I hear you girl, I feel bad you had to learn the hard way , girls let this be a lesson, do not reck yourself with reckless behaviour and be forced to expose nasty men like the man in this article

    peace be with you

  3. Exposed

    He that is without sin cast the first stone…The fact that you came cleaned let’s Spiritual minded people that you have repented. Telling the truth let’s Spiritual minded people know you’ve repented…please don’t discouraged over the comments you may receive..it would be different if this man was even trying to get his life right, come clean and go back and do his first works over again. I’m not condemning either of them but I’m praying…Know one can’t point fingers, all this female is doing is coming clean and telling therewith that makes her better..We can’t continue to cover sin especially when God is giving us a chance to get it right…I respect you for this and bid you God speed…allow him to completely heal you he sure did save you…Mr.Wise if you read further this man protrays like he isn’t married it took exposure for all this to come out…we can’t live shabby lives and think God don’t get tired…Be blessed Woman of God I’m holding you up in prayer.

  4. Tommie Turner

    I can’t think of the adjective to describe this low-life dog. He’s a disgrace to the kingdom of God. I know some pastor had to know what he was doing and kept it to himself. The one who continues to sin is to be rebuked in the presence of all.

  5. lturner

    How sad, but my question is why would you sleep with someone who is married? I hope I’m not being naieve but, if you’re a christian sin is sin. I’m just saying

    • zina litt

      LIKE WAS SAID BEFORE SHE IS NOT THE FIRST PERSON WHO WAS SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN AND WON’T BE THE LAST NOT SAYING THAT IT IS RIGHT BECAUSE IT IS NOT BUT HE KNEW WHEN HE WENT TO BED WITH HER THAT HE WAS INFECTED AND DID NOT CARE HE IS SAYING I GOT IT SO EVERYONE I CAN TOUCH WILL HAVE IT HE WILL GET HIS HE THE END BECAUSE HE HAS TO MEET THE MAKER AT THE END OF HIS ROPE GOD SAYS THEY SHILL NOT KILL AND IN SMALL WORDS THAT IS WHAT HE IS DOING

  6. Mr. Wimbush

    you people talking about “you sinned” and “you were fornicating with a married man” … please shut the heck up, this man is trash, and the same goes for those who even partially defend him. Enjoy your sexlife, be safe while doing it, nevermind an ancient book that says you cant, because im 100% sure neither of you follow it cover to cover.

  7. John

    Stop blaming this woman for what happened to her. “Sinning” by sleeping with a married man doesn’t mean you deserve to get HIV. Stop being ignorant. If he were single, the crime would be no less serious. Also, all these folks talking about other people sinning need to check their on lives, they’re full of it.

  8. Risa

    NO WOMAN would be in this situation if they ALL OBEYED GOD’S LAW: Reframe from adultery & fornication! Secondly, Dude was MARRIED! That was an AUTOMATIC RED FLAG! Those women are idiots! And as far as the men, remember Sodom & Gomorrah in the bible? GO FIGURE!

    • Brian

      And if if was a fifth we’d all be drunk!

    • Niki

      Why the immediate need to always blame the woman??? There were two parties in this act of sin. Not to mention, he was not forthcoming about his marital status. There’s so much I could say, but I will simply say that your perspective reminds me so much of the way the Pharisees who rebuked and prepared to stone the “woman” caught in adultery….You may want to refresh your memory as to how Jesus responded to her persecutors John 8:1-11

  9. HebrewIsraelitie

    He was able to make bail cause dumb Christians keep these n****s paid. Continue to stay in Ignorance until you leave the w***e of the Christian Church. Shalom.

  10. ok it’s like this ppl in glass house should not thow stones””’lady I am so glad GOD save you so you would be a living testimony..to others”..that old snake has many tricks”…wake up ppl don’t keep sleeping on that old snake

  11. Rae

    I’m wondering if these women knew he was married. If he would be a scumbag regarding his HIV status, why wouldn’t he be dishonest about being married??
    Its unfortunate that people in this world are so reckless and selfish about life. Esoecially under the disguise of the pulpit!

    • Jeana

      Im sure, of course they knew this man was married. He is a public figure in the church. Sneeking around and peeping around corners to get a piece and the women as well. It’s a lesson for all who did it and for those who did not. What’s done in the dark eventually will come out in the light and God don’t like ugly.

  12. I truelly hope the HIV is manageable and controllable and you continue to live a full life. The pastor is a snake and trash and deserves the worst life has to offer. If possible, you took the first step of a journey you can use to educate everyone about safe s*x. People listen to victims they can identify with. A lot of people in here ask why didnt they use protection, sinning, married men..etc.. but thats over.. let move forward and I wish you the best.

  13. thetruthhurts

    Wolves in sheep clothing; know those who labor among you; There is a price for sin the bible speaks of death! Warlocks, & Witches wear suits and fine perfume. A spirit of seduction is lerking in the church to fool the very elect! Discernment is different from Spiritual discernment; some of this s*x stuff is just desperation, every man or women in church is not seeking after God, but a predator to rob, kill, and destroy. He should be exposed. Many people will be affected by his decision to practice unsafe s*x, regardless, married or not. We all need to remember you reap what you sow. Spirit of pervertion we bind and loose the annointing that destroys the yolk!

  14. Wambuig

    It is very sad that people have chosen to attack this woman as opposed to heeding to the purpose of the message. She stated that this was for information hopefully 1 person or congregation can be saved from this Davis character! What she has done/did is between her and God! It’s also really sad that this kind of drama is going on in churches! Women in church come on we know better!!!! I thought fornication was not even open for discussion no? Are we that desperate? Just because he goes to church or is part of the church leadership should actually be all the more reason fornication is out of the question! Help us God and save us from ourselves!!!

  15. Alithia Quick-Toussaint

    I am amazed to hear this situation is even happening in the New millennium. More than ten years ago we women activist of the New York chapters were concerned that there was not enough institutions and information in the cities of the South, as it relates to s****l conduct, protection,and understanding how predatory behavior works. I am happy to hear that the law penalizes predators. However once you contract this disease, or any others, sending the predator to jail does very little. Please, please, please, allow someone in to teach you how to identify this behavior. I am even willing to promise that it will bring some of the bible and the old Mosaic laws to light, if that will help. We can’t stop sin, and we can’t stop man from believing. But we can be aware of the world. We are in it. Christian or not.

  16. I am not going to judge anyone, because we have all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God. Now that being said, look at how the devil duped Eve with the fruit, she knew what was right and wrong because we are all born with that feature!! This imp is working for the devil. Going from Church to Church? Taking and not giving anything good but this death sentence. If we love God the way we say we do, we would sin less, and less. I mean a change does come. All I want to say is if you are hiv negative, stay that way. If you are positive, it’s not too late to still have God in your life. Remember, the devil’s plan is to steal, kill and destroy. I made up my mind, that I, I have the Victory now in my life, because I have served the devil and his imps notice for me and mine!

  17. ARNEADER

    DONALD BATTLE WILL MARRY ANYBODY AT HIS CHURCH former police officer and you know what kind of reputation police officers have

  18. diablo

    am not gona even read the full letter b***h you a hoe f*****g a married man knowing hes marrie a pastor at that you supose to go to church to learn the wod of god but instead you going to church to f**k the pastor hoe i dont feel bad for you at all

    • Brian

      Don’t read it’s your choice but trust me as long as he is free he will be spreading this Major disease. And guess what Diablo the woman he infects are headed your way!

  19. legallybkchisis

    All I have to say is it’s a shame no matter how you swing it. Perhaps and just maybe a woman ought do all the research before laying down with a man………Hmmm! It’s not even worth discussing him he is A LOW LIFE DISGRACE!

  20. Jacquelyn Fletcher

    Young lady, you were not forced. You came willingly. There is a holy bible for you to read if you join any church. In it, it speaks of fornication. It is a sin. The problem is not that he did not tell you that he was HIV. The problem is both of you sinned. However, there is a remedy for sin. Just confess it and turn from it. Both of you. After you sinned, if you realize that you sinned, why not pray for the pastor because he has fallen, if he was ever saved. Now here we have two fallen people that is angry. Anger will not help. Let’s confess, turn and move on. And let the whole Church pray for healing, physically, mentally and spiritually. Amen!

  21. highfivesix

    What will it take for us to give our faith to God…? instead of blindly handing it over to our fellow man.

    Why don’t we walk into a church with a mental checklist filled with our own personal standards and an air of sceptisism that would raise red flags and cause us to say “I’m outta here” pronto!

    Without proper systems in place this could happen again, if it isn’t already happening.

  22. shay

    Wow. The bible says,”Think about what some of you were when you were called.Not many of you were wise,…” etc. So stop pointing fingers (those of you who are) as though you’re so holy and blameless. The ground is level at the foot of the cross and we’ve ALL” sinned and come short of the glory of God.” (Romans 3:23).
    The issue is that this false prophet is spreading a disease and living a lie. This woman is DOING THE RIGHT THING by exposing him. Thank God that she didn’t contract the disease and maybe her gratitude to God will turn her to Him. That’s between her and God alone. As christians we can only pray for her as much as we pray for ourselves. So, well done woman for exposing this guy. The bible also teaches, “Anyone then who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.”
    She did the good she ought to have done by exposing the CREEP.

  23. Imhotep

    Where is my guy Derrick on this one?..lol..anyway all you black women in this blog criticizing her be honest, the hierarchy in the church makes most of you all wet your pants and I have seen it live and in full effect. Be honest, y’all look at the men in the church like they have a different agenda than bros on the street but then y’all find out that most of those guys are even worst. y’all will buy them cars( pastor’s car especially) trips, etc like she said of Mr. Davis but will not give a bro out here in the street working and fighting to make it happen a chance to be with you or one red cent, unless you can talk him into becoming apart of that BS that is sold every Sunday in most churches. Why do women call men dogs, when they are in a lot of cases the author of this sneaky behavior? And it was some d**n sure sneaking going on in that House of the ” lawd”. These women are not alone across the black church in America, and a lot of you sisters know it. Ptah RA!!

    • WizardG

      @Imhotep. Nice name. Anyway. You’re right of course! What is worse is the European version of “God” beliefs has been exported around the world, and all of the insane attachments and denials that go with such superstitions have caused (ignorant) “black” people, as well as retarded “whites”, to be caught-up in some of the worst situations ever. In some areas of Africa, the men have been told (probably started by some vicious lying white men), that having s*x with a young virgin will eliminate the HIV/AIDS virus! In other parts of Africa they (whites) have told blacks that if they are circumcised it would reduce the chances of getting HIV/AIDS! They have even introduced and assembly-line method of eliminating the foreskin from the p***s!

      “Whites” or Anglo-Saxons and their cohorts, are making millions from ignorant “Christians” all over the world, and blatantly lying to them to purposely cause ‘genocide’ while charging hefty prices for the false cons! “Black people” in Africa believe “whites” to a fault, just as African Americans here believe whites to a fault!

      If our “black community” didn’t believe whites to a fault they surely wouldn’t believe in the Caucasian inspired Christianity and Catholicism mythology and superstitions etc. Yet they do believe in such inane, insane c**p! And it goes that if they (blacks) can so easily believe in religions passed on to them by “whites”, they will believe just about anything! Which is why it is so easy for lying con artists to manipulate church “congregations”, and another particular political con artist to manipulate the the minds of the African Americans in the country! The symptoms of our African American community are evident in everything we think, say, and do, but very few recognize, or are able to put the pieces together! Very few can use proper logic and reasoning, because very few have minds that are not blocked by the Caucasian inspired superstition/fantasy filled Christian “God beliefs”! Which, by the way, is just what ‘our’ white “slavemasters” understood would happen to the minds of people cluttered by such outrageous garbage!

  24. There are plenty more like him in the church.

  25. Alan Bell

    While the evidence seems to indicate that Davis is a low life guilty dog, he might not be. Or he might be guilty of 90% of it but 10% that isn’t true was heaped on for good measure. It’s happened many times before that exaggerated and made-up ugliness comes out on both sides in s****l relationships gone bad. So yes, let’s dump on Davis and support the victim as we understand the facts to be right now. But at the same time let’s realize that there is a chance, however slim, that at the end of the day, things might turn out to be different from what seems so clear at the present time.

  26. shehiplocki

    I feel bad for your situation and no matter what the circumstances I don’t feel you deserve to have HIV. I take your letter as a cautionary tale to remain even more vigilant to continue to practice safe s*x if I meet a man and to remember not to judge a book by the cover. As my dear Grandmother always said” just cause some thing looks good, don’t mean it is good”. Take care and I hope you have a rich and successful future.

  27. NP

    This is a sad situation, yes she was wrong in what she did and you will pay for your actions. But I applaud her for letting others know because those in his past maynot be aware that they could be infected!! And we know that not all people will come forth and let you know what has happened to them even if it wasn’t there fought, you know the shame, embarrassment, hurt and fear are huge hurdles to get past.

    Also keep in mind that he WASN’T ALWAYS MARRIED so he could have knowingly passed the disease on to others long before her. Let’s use this as a warning and reminder to protect yourself, try your best to follow the word of GOD and pray for each other.

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  30. marcus davis

    Boy oh boy alot of dilly dallying in the church .That pastor whatever he is ,is a piece of c**p ,but then again those women should,nt have been messing with him in the first place if he,s married ,and obviously all these women seem to have missed the boat when it comes to regarding protection during s*x.In the 21st century there is no excuse for being this stupid theres just way too much info regarding s*x protection.

    • highfivesix

      I agree with your assertions…there is enough blame and shame to go around. Given how gossip prone people are, there is little doubt that more than a handfull knew of these transgressions. “Things that make you go Hmmm…”

      If we pledge to learn and grow from this debauchery than it wouldn’t have been for naught.

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  33. Prof. R. Lawrence

    First, as others have pointed out, whether this woman fornicated or committed adultery is irrelevant. If you were writing an analysis or summary I would give a big, fat, F! Last time I checked, a sexually transmitted disease does not check for marital or moral status before infecting someone. Plenty of so-called fornicators and adulterers have had rampant s*x and have never acquired any disease and there have been quite a few women who were monogamous (and assumed their men were too) who have nevertheless been infected.

    If everything this woman says is true, we should all hope he reaps the proper punishment.

    • highfivesix

      The last time I checked a sexually transmitted disease does not check for marital or moral status before infecting someone…hmmm…but the PEOPLE who are having s*x should!

      Even she mentioned in her BRAVE letter the affects that have occurred due his adulterous/fornicating ways and I’m glad she mentioned them.

      I will repeat! if we pledge to learn and grow from this than it would not have been for naught. The latter part of her letter clearly gave testimony of what can be learned.

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  35. jojo

    Where is your responsibility woman of God? The only reason you are upset with him is because he is HIV positive, why aren’t you upset with yourself for making a poor decision sleeping with a man whose STD status you don’t know? Or why are you not upset that you slept with a man you are not married to? It takes two to Tango and I feel you need to be resmorseful for your actions too.

    Sin is contagious!!!

  36. Lima

    Well well …. the evil one does have a face.

  37. Marcie Johnson

    This “pastor” is obviously a predator and predators always seek out the weaknesses of their prey. It is very sad that so many women, including his wife, have fallen victim to this predator but the fact is, they did. And, with him free to roam the streets, more will. We could cast so many terms on the predator but will that do anyone any good? Won’t there be more bang for our buck with this exposure, more on Twitter, more on Facebook, perhaps a blog or two? However, one would think, with all the information and education available concerning STDs and especially HIV, wommen would protect themselves 100% of the time and refrain from s****l relationships that are dishonest in any way, specifically, those with married partners. Ladies, you have the power to say no; you really do. USE YOUR POWER and your common sense.

  38. LIZ

    I keep telling you dummies….PASTORS AIN’T s**t!!

  39. Fatima

    It was courageous of you to share openly about your indiscretion. Through your indiscretion It shed light on a married minister who’s willing to fornicate with female members of his church and HIV + I pray for his wife to be tested.I facilate a group of courageous women whom husband infected them. The eldest member is in her 70′s.Black Women are the last thing CDC an other agencies think about as it pertain to Hiv/Aids. Pastors aren’t exempted.

  40. Maria

    First and foremost, why would a woman sleep with this man, any man, married/not married without a condom??? She obviously does not care nor take pride in herself since she did what she did…does she deserve this diagnosis, no she does not, but she walked into this situation, with eyes wide open, therefore she got what she basically asked for…everything has a price all, actions have consequences!

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  42. Erica

    Whatever happened to single people in church being CELIBATE ? Married people sleeping only with their spouse ? As a Christian we should all strive to be Godlike. We do fall sometimes but if we think before we act the world will be a better place. God bless.

  43. kk

    I am so tired of SOME people who dont know the Word say” dont judge” do you know the meaning and difference between accountability, and judging?!?!? DAH!!! THIS WOMAN IS JUST AS WRONG AS THE MAN! WHEN I KNOW IM WRONG ‘IM WRONG!!!! POINT BLANK, THE SAME WAY HE HAD NO BUISNESS STICKING HIS INFECTED p***s IN HER, IS THE SAME WAY SHE WAS WRONG! FOR OPENING UP HER LEGS TO A MARRIED MAN!!! WRONG PLUS WRONG EQUAL WRONG!!! THE BIBLE IS CLEAR ABOUT ADULTERY, BY THE WAY WHICH IS JUST AS SINFUL AS INFECTING A PERSON WITH HIV. WE DONT GET TO PICK AND CHOSE WHICH SIN IS THE WORSE, SIS IS SIN IN GOD’S EYES!

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  45. Ramona

    Beautiful Sista……you have been given a second chance to live a fulfilling, satisfying and worthwhile life. The knowledge you’ve gained can be a gift to others who may have considered traveling down that road.
    Be at peace sista.

  46. Maurice Ainsworth

    I say shame on the church for not thoroughly investigating this individual before accepting him into the pulpit. I’m sure the red flags were there, however, when one is charming, charismatic and an eloquent speaker, they tend to be ignored. This man was an impostor and a s****l predator. He used his position to feed his sickness. Regardless of the indiscretion of the woman who has filed charges, he is to be held accountable more so because of his trusting servant status. In every church there are single women looking for a church man who loves the lord and has a job. Some will talk to know one except for that kind of a man. She was incorrect for her actions, but so was the minister. In theory, a minister should be able to subdue his/her passions more effectively than members of the congregation.

    Lastly, why is there so much contempt being shown for these two? We are not worthy of judgement, nor should we take sides. We should be grateful that we are not them, that we have an integrity that prevents such action. We should recall our indiscretions and be compassionate toward them both. I can’t throw rocks cause I live in a glass house.

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  49. Jahstone

    I almost didn’t respond after reading so many responses to this story…. My thoughts are definitely inline with those wrote things like, “she had no business sleeping with a married man”. But I thought it important to also mention that this is a woman scorn! She said she’s Negative. People who didn’t take the Test is Positive: how does she know this? It appears that because she has been ‘played’, the above letter is an attempt to curtail any further fools from being fooled by this man. One of those, like, ‘if I can’t have him, nobody will’… Much has been said about this woman already so there is no need for me to add on. However, someone said that he should be incarcerated to stop him from spreading the Virus any longer. This is the stupidest comment in this column! What are you going to do next? Imprison everybody with HIV? Get real! I wouldn’t go so far as to say she deserved to be infected for sleeping with a married man (I don’t wish that on my worst enemy), but she sure does deserve to be put through the ‘scare’, verbal, and spiritual abuse that followed the Revelation of this ordeal!
    The person above said something similiar to what follows, but not how I say it daily; which is: BETTER HIM/HER THAN ME!!!

  50. Katherine

    Hmmm…I thought this blog was an advisement, not a confession. Y’all always want to judge somebody.

  51. Larry

    Anybody who thinks this was easy for this lady to write—go ahead–post your skeletons right here—-just what I thought!! Holier than thou hypocrites! I applaud her for trying to save some other unsuspecting female from the same fate. the guy has bling and rap and it is OBVIOUSLY working since he already slept with half the congregation in two different churches. this lady is much braver than anybody on this post hiding behind their keyboards. Including me!

  52. When regarding this unfortunate event occurring within our black society I must ask. When are we going to get the good uplifting and inspiring news which inspire us all to be a better person? There is a growing plague threatening the very existence of our black community, and its call HIV. Should it’s rate continue to spread like wild fire, the black community a known in danger species will seize to exist.

    Independently of who slept with whom and who should not be having s*x with whom! Knowingly exposing someone to the HIV virus could be compared to pulling the trigger of a loaded gun while pointing at someone. Especially, when regarding the black community traditionally known for having very limited or no access to health care.
    As if our community doesn’t have enough problems now, unscrupulous people have are launching an all out war against the image of the church from within.

    The reality is that no one should intentionally put the health and life of others in danger and duties and responsibilities of a pastor should be upheld to the highest. Pastor’s transgression constitutes an aggression against all churches and even more it constitutes a direct attack against hope!

  53. ormash

    When you believe that the Almighty God impregnated a young virgin girl anything is subject to happen. At some point you have to question your belif system.

  54. No one is saying that Ms. McAfee deserves to have HIV for sleeping with a married man. I believe the point here is that while Ms. McAfee is providing information to assist other women/men from contracting HIV from Mr. Davis, she failed to explain how she could even have gotten herself involved with him in the first place. Perhaps all of her research and findings occurred following his hearing and her learning of her being contracted. But, in her decision to speak out on the subject of him, inquiring minds are curious about her affiliations with him, while she was naming names of others. How did she become entangled in this yolk of bondange herself, is the question. Someone commented that “he knew he was HIV positive when he slept with her”. Well, yeah… duh… Many times people know what they are when they decide to sleep with someone. But, I am believing that these people feel that “if you don’t think enough of your own personal hygiene and health to stop and ask my status; then, to me, you don’t mind me sharing what I have with you”. We are to assume nothing. No one is going to stop being attracted to you, if you are busy giving them the come on. It is the responsibility of each individual to know what questions to ask someone before we go hopping in the sack with them. Once in the sack, no one is going to stop and say: “oh, by the way, should we go further-because you know I’m HIV positive, etc”. So, the main point here is: “We all know that; especially, in this day and age with incurable diseases on the rise, this moreso than any other time is when we must be more vigilant than ever of our own safety, s****l health, etc.” When we put our safety, and s****l healh status into the hands of someone else, we can never assume they will look out for our best interest. People lie and deceive all the time. Look at what the pastor and all of these women he slept with while married did to his wife. Now, they are all reaping what they have sown. They all assumed he was clean; and, they should have known he was not because he was sleeping with someone else-his own wife. And, who knows her status. Women tend to have a willingness to share bodily fluids with another woman, by sharing the same man, and do not stop to think of how nasty it is. There is no way of knowing whom the wife may have slept with; and, what tainted contribution she is making to the relationship with her own husband. So, again, I say: “Assume nothing”!!!

  55. lisalene

    Do we sppose to feel sorry for you thats the price you have to pay for commenting adultery

  56. Hard Times

    First of all I don’t believe this letter came from a woman but from a homosexual. That’s for openers. Second of all, if the writer did get they a*s lit up that’s what they get for messing with a married man. Period. The end. Get tested again. Case closed.

  57. freeze

    Another Pimp in the pulpit.

  58. patrice

    I don’t mean any harm but SIN IS SIN!! We have more Christian and less BORN AGAIN CHRISTIANS.This is the reason people don’t want to come to church.They see Christian sneaking around with everybody.Now I see why so many Black folks have highest rate of HIV.Buy a v******r, some s*x toys.This man was so ignorant by the time he knew about his HIV,I am certain a woman notified him.Then he didn’t care.There is a price to pay for everything we d0 that is wrong and it involves more than you.Ladies/Men don’t forget about HPV–STD,Herpes and you can’t get rid of these diseases.Romans 10:9

  59. Tiamette

    As a Christian Woman, I would not have been in this predicament because Thou Shalt Not Committ Adultery, you are also not supposed to have s*x outside of marriage and why in the world aren’t people thinking about protection in this day and age? Women are to quick to throw their legs open.

  60. EVERYONE FALLS SHORT OF THE GLORY

    ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ANYONE! SOME OF YOU PEOPLE ARE GOING STRAIGHT TO h**l FOR BEING STUPID! THIS MAN HAS NO RIGHT GOING AROUND GIVEN PEOPLE A DEATH SENTENCE AND SEEMS LIKE HIS WIFE IS SUPPORTING HIM WHILE DOING IT! NEXT, THIS WOMAN OWES NOONE ANYTHING BUT GOD. SHE’LL GIVE ACCOUNT FOR HER OWN SIN! WE ALL HAVE THEM NO MATTER HOW YOU WANT TO PRETEND TO BE ALL HIGH AND MIGHTY IN THE CHURCH. LIEK SOMEONE TOLD ME JUST BECAUSE YOU SING IN THE CHOIR, USHER ONT HE USHER BOARD, GO TO SUNDAY SCHOOL, CHURCH, AND TOEHR THINGS DON’T MAKE YOU A CHRISTIAN AND BOUNND TO HEAVEN! I CONGRATULATE THIS WOMAN FOR COMING FORWARD AND TRYING TO EXPOSE THIS TRASH BEFORE ANYONE ELSE GETS A DEATH SENTENCE.

  61. EVERYONE FALLS SHORT OF THE GLORY

    I agree with my co-worker when she made this comment”JUST BECAUSE YOU SING IN THE CHOIR, USHER ON THE USHER BOARD, GO TO SUNDAY SCHOOL, CHURCH, AND OTHER THINGS IN THE CHURCH DON’T MAKE YOU A CHRISTIAN AND BOUNND TO HEAVEN! SHE SAID A MOUTH FULL THEN BECAUSE PEOPLE THINK IF THEY HIDE BEHIND SOME OF THOSE THINGS IT’S OK BECAUSE THEY ARE GOING TO HEAVEN NOT!

  62. Andrea

    I feel sad for those who are judging this woman saying that she had no right sleeping with someone’s husband. You all are not to judge her. She does not owe any repentance to any human nor the ones who are judging her. No one is saying what she did is right but you all did not know the situation. She is not to be judged by you all, that is God’s job. Your job is to try to help her through this. God bless all of us.

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  64. John Smith

    See the problem is this. Most of you think you are do holy and want to their scripture at people when your closet is not clean itself. This women done not have to answer any question from any of you so called holy people. Age only owes her repentance to God and the last time I checked non of you are God. The bible does let you know what’s done in the dark Will come to light. So now he has been exposed what some of you need to do is worrie about who the h**l yours sleeping with. Always trying to be so d**n deep. You did the right thing by exposing the b*****d and it does not matter who you sleep with you own non of these Dum a***s any explanation. You own it to God to repent.

  65. jo

    THAT’S SAD PEOPLE BLAME THE WOMEN. A MAN SUPPOSED TO BE OF GOD SPREADING IS DISEASE IS A SHAME. CUT IS OFF THAT WILL STOP HIM.

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